Help i have lost my soul mates,people and there family's i had know for 20 years for one reason or another .

Question

As result i have in trying to start my life again i have meet negative people and a man who have caused me nothing but hurt they have pretended to on my side and got me to do things i did not want do and .because of lack of support of them things have gone and i i been left to sort things out on my own and frightened now because people have made me out a lair and try ed to make me look bad.How can i find people that will only been good ,love ,and happiness in my life like the people i use to know as i feel i am living in a world of strangers who either want to hurt or ignore me

Answer 1

Sometimes you can go back. If they were true friends you can go back.

In life sometimes we think another place will make a difference- whether physically or emotionally  a new place only makes a difference if you improve your living ( like a new job would). You take all your emotional garbage with you to the new place.

I did the same at one point- I ran from my responsibilities and my own mistakes, cause rifts between myself and friends, but I went back! And I apologized and lived my life in a decent and honorable way. I knew then I  didn't need new friends what I really needed was my old friends. And of course my family.

Answer 2

A good beginning is calling 1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com 24-7 for licensed counseling support.  Tell your story.

1-800-232-6459 http://www.focusonthefamily.com M-F business hours ask for Counseling dept.  They will listen and make good recommendations.

"Emotions," Marilyn C. Barrick, Ph.D., is worthwhile.

Answer 3

Some people have a strange view of life, and their negativity is best left in the past. Take comfort in the fact that you have risen above them.

Life will roll on slowly, as one door closes, another one will be opened.  Soon there will be a new life for you, slowly, but surely, it will fill the gaps left by an unfortunate past.

Take the time to make your own plan. The wheel of fortune will continue its cycle, and before you know it - you will be back on top.

Best wishes.