Help!! i need it...if there is any doctors here please could you answer me.. and please explain fully ???

Question

i just told my mum i am g*y and I'm 15 that i have a boyfriend and he is 19...they are just getting to grips with it.... but we aren't doing anything illegal.. anything wrong.. we may be boyfriend and boyfriend but we love to spend time together.. we know we cant do anything which we both have made the decision that we aren't going to do that or anything illegal... till i am actually allowed to... we just spend time together go in to town... to castles and chat.. that's all we do... am i doing anything wrong?

Answer 1

I can appreciate your honesty, but I think that from your Mum's way of thinking, this "friend" may be taking advantage of you.  She is within her rights to have him prosecuted for dealings with a minor.

Give her time to adjust to the idea, behave yourself, and don't ruffle her feathers right now.....see if you all can sit down and talk about it, just to clear the air..I just read over some of your other questions concerning Doctors, so there may be more to this than you are telling, and I am sure that your Mum is sensing it as well.....good luck ...thank you

Answer 2

I am not a doctor, but to tell you the truth Luke, I don't think that is really what you need right now.

Why on earth would a 19 year old young man be fooling around with a 15 year old.  If I was your Mum I would have him thrown in jail.

When you are 16, 17 or 18 then maybe you can make your own decisions, but so long as you are a minor you are jail bait. and under the protection and guidance of your parents.

I know that is not what you wanted to hear but you need to back off this situation.

Answer 3

I don't really see what's wrong about it. Since both of you are just spending time together, bonding and enjoying. I think your main issue is your parents??