Help i need someone to talk to?my boyfriend of 5yrs.left?

Question

he took $500.00 out of our savings and i did not have a clue till after the fact

Answer 1

I am so sorry.  You really need to quickly change all your credit cards and bank accounts.  It isn't hard, doesn't take long and is absolutely essential.  Also, you may want to change the lock on the house.  Maybe, if he is going to be a real jerk, it will be easier to get over him.  Sure hope so.  Hugs.  

Answer 2

ok #1 thank god he left....#2 sorry   #3 you will find someone so much better for you because #4  YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! good luck honey.......get happy - your right place in life and things will fall into place DON"T ever take him back...NO WAY!!!!

Answer 3

im sorry  if he stole it you should call the cops thats called stealing especially when he conned you out for the money or it can be fraud  

Answer 4

I think the person you need to talk to is a cop. I feel for you though. That's rough. It's a betrayal of trust. *hugs*

Answer 5

I'm sorry. Sometimes thing happen for a reason.  That is how I live my life.

Answer 6

Omg. *Hugs*

Answer 7

WELL WHEN YOU SEE HIM YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT TO DO...

Answer 8

OMG, I am so sorry, you need to file a police report. That's unless you put his name on your accounts. And then if that so you should just slap yourself.  

Answer 9

Sounds like he was an @sshole anyway! Look at your new freedom. You know all those good looking guys you saw when you were with him? Now you can go after them!!!!

In all seriousness, things will get better, but it will take time. Surround yourself with any family or friends that will lift your spirits.

Cheers...to the NEW you!

Answer 10

oh gosh...that is horrible. will lend an ear if that will  help.    i am a good listener and will give any advice i can.  i just went through a divorce

Answer 11

ouch, don't be sad about it, i guess u have to do something here. change your savings account, change your password immediately if he didn't took all your money i hope. and move on, he should be out of your life. and we're here to support you, best of luck

Answer 12

I am so sorry, I guess this tells you that he won't be back and that he was a low down sneaking scoundrel that has no feelings or regards for anyone.  I would be pissed too, but unfortunately nothing you can do about it.  Make sure you have everything else put in your name so he can't touch anything else, but my guess is that the damage is already done.  

Answer 13

close all accounts that have him as a joint and try to find out what the h**l happened thats crazy

Answer 14

Im sorry to here that what an a***e he is.hugs and kisses

Answer 15

man yeah poeple can suprize you.

one day they are mr nice and sweet

....

the next day they are someone you fet like you met at a swap market in mars.

Answer 16

Hi

This is the first time to answer a question on relationship

As I feel that nothing is forever in life except love and ofcourse money doesn't come in picture when you are in love and I think you can convince him well and also I think he will also understands you well if he loves you...

Because I do the same to my GF...

Regards

Your friend

Answer 17

I'm very sorry to hear that.

It looks like he's on a run of some kind - booze, drugs, partying, s*x with someone else, something out of the ordinary - but he'll be back.

Don't worry. He'll be back with his rotten tail between his legs. In this day & age, $500 doesn't get you that far.

Answer 18

I have sorrow for you. If that is the way he is , just be thankful you got out with only the cost of $500.00. I would say good riddance. By the way Im a guy. Good luck in the future. May you be blessed.