Help. i think im losing my best friend?

Question

i have a close friend, probably my best friend, and im sure im his best friend, and when sophomore year started we told eachother we wanted this year to be different. wanted to leave our group of friends. we both agreed there really pathetic. lately hes been hanging out with these other people every weekend. i know them too and there pretty cool but there just closer with my best friend. my friend hasnt hung out with me in a while but he still talks to me at school more than anyone else. im pretty sure hes not trying to ditch me. but i feel left out that hes hanging with them and not even inviting me to come with over the weekend. i give him hints saying i have nothing to do this weekend and hes just like well that sucks. the people he hangs out with are fun as h**l to be around too, i know how they are. its felt like im just stuck here not making any progress, stuck with my old friends whos personalities barely match and its going nowhere. how can i get my bestfriend to let me come with? i just feel like changing too.

Answer 1

Sounds like the same problem I'm having. I know it's not because my bff doesn't want to hang out, it's just that most of the time she has other plans. My guy-friend doesn't invite me to hang-out when him and his brother are handing out with one of our other friends. I too hint about it, but we make plans to hang out without anyone else, it just hasn't happened. Let your friend know that you want to hang out with him and his group sometime, or just you two..