Help im going to a new school?

Question

Im worried that nobody in my new form will hate me and i won't make any friends and be a loner all the rest of my time in school can i have any peices of advice to give to me cause im so nervous :(

Answer 1

The best thing to do is keep calm, act natural and just be yourself. don't try to be anybody else to make people like you because 1. you will feel uncomfortable and 2. they will discover who you really are some time or another. Also, don't rush into friendships immediately, just keep cool, take your time and get to know the person. Nothing's worse than thinking that you have a great friend, then further down the line discovering that you don't know anything about them and you don't actually like them.

Answer 2

Its ok to be nervous, everyone is when they go to a new school. I know I was when I moved to a new place and had to go to a new school. The thing that I did was I got up my courage to talk to people and even though I was shy I made myself talk. It helped me because once I started talking to others, I found that they were just as nervous as I was and most of them were new too.

If you let your nerves get to you, it will only made things worse and you will get no where unless you open up.

Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Smile!  : )  Keep a positive attitude!  Have NO expectations.. and Relax !  Get lots of sleep, eat a great breakfast and sign up for a club!

Answer 4

Be yourselve and smile! you will make friends dont worry about that, i moved school a few years back and i was very very nervous about it but i met my bestfriend there! it sounds daunting at first and of course the first day always is the worst, but youll have heaps of stuff to talk about to the people in your class cause you can ask them bout the teachers and classes and stuff, you'll soon know them all... you'll be fine..promise

Answer 5

It's best to be friendly and act yourself (don't go making up a whole fake persona!). It's also totally OK to be nervous because most people in your position probably feel the same, and your new classmates will understand that. Good luck!

Answer 6

Everyone is nervous. Just be yourself and keep a positive outlook. Make sure to get involved in activities like sports/clubs that will connect you with a group of people. Seek out kids to sit with at lunch etc. Talk to whoever has the locker next to you, even if it's just a quick hey.

Answer 7

If you are friendly and smile a lot people usually tend to feel more comfortable around you. ( But be genuine, no one likes a person who's fake!) Compliments also work well. Commet on some girl's bag and ask her where she got it.You can usually start from there. You can also tell the person you're new. Ask for help from other students; they will usually be sympathetic unless they're jerks. :) Others things to talk about could be music, hobbies and interests, how long they've lived in the area and fun places to hang out. One you make a friend, ask him/her if you can sit with them at lunch. Do this ASAP so that you can avoid the awkward c**p-I-can't-find-a-table situation.

If you have anymore questions, just ask me!:) Good luck!  

Answer 8

If I'd had £1 for every time I'd heard that, I'd be a millionaire!  So many people worry that they won't make friends then wonder what all the fuss was about at the end of the first day.  When you get there, smile at people you like to let them know you're friendly, then go and ask what primary school they've come from.  You'll find that the conversation will go from there because they'll ask you the same and then it will go on to where you both live and the people you know.  Before you know it, you'll be buddies in no time!