Help!! im really nervous!???

Question

So I went to this church lst week with my mom bcuz she made me and now we're going again.. I hate going mostly because of my own problems which is shyness and stuff but I cant help it!! and last week there was this guy my age and I was looking over at him then he looked at me so I looked away really awkardly.. I was sooo embarrassed..now everything is going to be even worse tomorrow....!! any advice!??? this is one of the things I really hate about my life!??

Answer 1

relax he probably didn't think anything bad about you he probably forgot all about it try to cheer up and go anyway maybe you could be friends with him :)

Answer 2

like everyone's saying, just chill. what i do in these kind of situations is to do something relaxing before i head out (usually, i listen to music). if you do, you'll be in a more laid back state... so when you do get there, it will be nice and smooth. and not to sound rude or anything, but most people are too self-involved with our own messes that they hardly look around and notice others. so, just as you're pre-occupied with your nerves, someone else is worrying about their dogs and kids.

Answer 3

just try not to worry about it too much. its normal

Answer 4

RELAX! People look at other people all the time. If he was looking at you, most likely he likes you too. If he didn't he would've avoided looking in your direction completely.

You should really work on your confidence.