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Question

ok so i recently found out that one of my # 1 best friends is doing weed. like she can go to her dads house and wlk to her neighbor and do it. and her dad doesnt care he just thinks that she is just hangin. and she told me 2 times but the first time i didnt think she was serious and i was like if u do that i will kill u. but my sister was in the room and like i kinda had to say that but i want to try it but my parents find out everything. and i dont want to get caught. thats the only thing im afraid of. and i am not young, im going in to high school next month so dont think im one of those little 6 or 7 graders that want to have s*x and raise a kid while living off selling and smoking ****.

and if my parents found out i dont no what they would do. cuz that girl is one out of 2 of my best friend and i would die if i couldnt see her n e more.

Answer 1

all i can say is your a hypocrite  

Answer 2

weed and any kind of drug can mess up ur life....my cousin was a pot head and he had to re-do is junior year because of it. if u think its cool then ur wrong....its stupid and irrisponsible. if u try it ur not gonna be able to stop.....have u ever heard of the word ADDICTING!!!!! dont do it....ur friend is stupid for doing weed and it will ruin her life if she doesnt stop. it will ruin urs to. dont fall under the influence.....be smart and stay away from all drugs no matter how harmless u think they r

Answer 3

DONT DO IT! BECAUSE ONCE YOU TRY IT YOU MIGHT LIKE IT AND TO GET OFF OF IT WILL BE WORST. I BELIEVE THAT YOUR BEST FRIEND IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND IF SHE IS TRYING TO GET YOU TO DO IT. DONT DO IT, DONT DISAPPOINT YOUR PARENTS.  

Answer 4

The best advice I ever got was this:

Is it something you would do if your parents were there?? If the answer is no...the answer is no.  

Answer 5

Dont try it. All that we re used to right now, started with "trying" it. Smoking started with try to smoke once. Then next, and next, and next. If you'll try it, you'll never know that it will eat you. it will be your norm. it will be something that is permanent. so dont

Answer 6

dont let your parents find out. Its actually kinda fun. the first time i smoked it, everything looked like a weard cartoon. lol

Answer 7

Weed?

Well,

you can tell right away that if you're thinking that you're parents will kill you,

then obviously it's wrong.

It will seriously mess you up!

Answer 8

Nobody is completely immune to getting addicting. Just think about it long and hard, first. Is the short lived high worth your life?  

Answer 9

ha

just bcuz ur going to high school doesnt make you "older" or anything. tell me your not young when your a junior or senior.

then people will believe you. >=P

Answer 10

No...and one other thing if your friend would dump you because you don't want too...she NEVER WAS A FRIEND.You sound like you feel mature going into high school next month...well it is time to make mature choices now and show them you can be a leader not a follower. One last thing..eventually your parents will find out!!Or you will be at the wrong place and get arrested. All things that can happen ...And not to the"other guy".

***ADDICTIONS START W/ A SINGLE TIME...

Answer 11

dont give into it. i know it was your choice, but as someone who has witnessed a lot of her friends become potheads.. please dont. it seems like its something new and exciting, but you dont know if youll get addicted or not. i know you may not get it now, but please listen to me.. choose the right thing.

Answer 12

thats a tuffy, did you try talking to her?

Answer 13

I refuse to tell you how to get high without yoru parents knowing. Thast rediculous.

Answer 14

If you really care about your friend, then get her some help- fast.

And live above the influence of weed... don't take the wrong path in life.

Answer 15

Okay, I smoked pot in high school. I really liked it because I had a very strict mom and it made life with her easier. (I'm 23 now, married, moved out at 18, married at 22) I think that there is nothing wrong with experimenting in high school because you can with out getting in to much trouble. I never got in trouble for it and I spent a lot of time in 10th high. Not so much in 11th and 12th I graduated a term early and am currently in college. On occasion (once every six months) I still smoke. I still like it but when you get out of high school and have to maintain a job it is not as practical because you have to do drug tests to get jobs a lot of the time. Don't do it during the school week because it makes your brain lazy and your mom will catch on. And until you know how you react to pot only do it when you are spending the night away from home. You will giggle a lot and your mom will catch on. All in all if you get caught its not worth it. If you don't it totally is. Just remember control your self because pot is considered the "gate way" drug.  

Answer 16

Say no to drugs. I'm sure there is always something we all want to try but don't feel that it is worth the risk. If your friend is doing weed that's her choice and her life. If you haven't gotten addicted to anything in your entire life how do you think this will affect you? What have you tried that might become addicting and compare what you have done to weed

Answer 17

Visit a drug and alcohol rehab centre in your area and meet some of the patients there, then decide if you want to try it or not. My older sister almost died from a drug she only took once, its not a thing you should decide if you should use it, its not a choice of which colour shirt you should wear, it can take your life. it is serious. you obviously are very young and need to grow up a bit i dissaprove of your immaturaty.  

Answer 18

theres this little thing called D.A.R.E.

Answer 19

haha...being a 9th grader is not much different from being a 7th grader as far as drugs and s*x are concerned...you are too young.

Answer 20

SAY NOOOOOOOOOOOO TO DRUGS.

Answer 21

Ok... ive been in a situation kinda like this.... and no matter how much you wanna try it, DON'T! it's not fun and all it does is **** you up...

you should talk to your friend, and if she's really your friend, she will listen to you, if she keeps on doing it....then she will probably learn the hard way...i know that way...it isn't fun

Answer 22

Do what they say in DARE in like elementary or whatever; SAY NO TO DRUGS!! Even if you have never gotten addicted to anything before, it doesn't mean you are in some shield, protecting you form getting addicted to drugs. Once you start, its hard to stop!!

Answer 23

omfg you should not have to ask say NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! drugs are bad and can kill you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 24

listen, everyone's body is different, just cuz she aint hooked dont mean you wont get hooked. My cousin from my dads side was in the kind of situation where his parents could care less what he was doing, they had him at 16 and he was an accident and they treat him like it. He found his cousin/ bff smoking it and he tried it, now he's hooked after a couple of times and he needs help but wont get any because he likes the feeling. His parents threw him out, he moves from one friend's house to the next, and he has no where to go, and we (my family) haven't been able to find him since last year when he got hooked. If i was you i would try and get her t stop, thats what a real friend would do, and don't be like my cousins, the other guy who did it first was able to stop and is fine now, so every bod is different, don't try it, please dont be like them, be a real; friend and tell her this TRUE story, if she doesn't stop, oh well, her problem, but don't follow in her footsteps. Drugs only get u into trouble, just watch that show, Intervention, and you'll see that what i'm saying is true.  

Answer 25

As soon as i got to high school one year all of my friends starting smoking weed and i had a couple times before. but i was not a stoner or anything. weed isnt bad for you. its just not good to do it a lot because you probably know this but it makes you sit around and do nothing. but it feels good. So i had this good friend lauren that i met in 8th grade and she is gorgeous right? and the next year she starts hanging with these goths kids who are always stoned. and she doesn't fit in. cause she is all preepy. but she changes her clothes and they except. i told her straight up. i said what the **** do you think your doing. i said your stoned all the time and your mom is mad at you all the time. dont you care about her and how much she loves you? then a week later she stopped smoking. and she is way cooler now then ever.

Answer 26

DO NOT TRY IT

it will ruin your life i am going into highschool and i am so not thinking about that and you can smell it on people and you get looking gross ur mom will find out and you can guarentee it and i dont think you should be friends with a person who is goiing to influence you to do this kind of c**p