Help me, please.?

Question

Hi, I'm almost 14 year old. My whole life I've suffered from abuse and being taking away and my mom has been in jail for half my life. I now live with my dad but when I lived with her when i was little i was always abused. The past years when she came back to jail, I was in 5th grade and since then she has been abusing me mentally and physically, shes an alcoholic and has been her whole life thats why she does it, I think? My brother dont talk to her any more and im in a huge fight and havent talked to her in a while. My dad doesnt know, and if we do get along again, IF WE DO, and I don't want to ever see her again and i havent heard from her as well. do you think shes okay? what do i do? and how do i tell me dad, he doesnt ever unstand me.

Please help, i know this is diffucult.

Please, im hopeless

Answer 1

You need to sit down with you father and have a honest talk with him. Be 100% honest. Tell him everything that is on your mind, and tell him what is going on with your your mother.

Answer 2

seeing how you were abused you should be a great mother to your kids seeing how you know how it feels. just because your mom abused you doesn't mean your life should be ruined because of it, become a better person

Answer 3

I do not talk to my parents. they did meth when I was  young they quit now that im 23. but i have alot of anger and disapointment for them we fight alot and they are still mentally abusive. I just dont want to get hurt anymore. So I feel Im better without them. But its not heathly to hold a grudge. Just take it day by day relationships change.

Answer 4

just tell him, or tell your family, tell someone, you cannot live with her anymore. you can get so badly injured!i am so sorry about this. when i read the 2nd sentence, my heart dropped, i cant imagine anyone would do that to their child. you could always hide in your room forever? i am so sorry about this. i wish i could help. i honestly feel so bad for you.