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Question

Ok...My bestfriends a guy and his girlfriend hates me because a am friends with him...So today she got my number and started calling me every 2 mins...Does she have a right to hate me cause me and my friend have bin froends for 4 years and they started dating this year...I cant take it anymore....and her bestfriends r on my team and Ryan(bestfriend) said if they say anything to u thats mean tell me and i will break up with Kristie...Wat do i do..Help please

Answer 1

just tell her that you and ryan are bestfriends. and they you would never steal him from her. i understand she might be jelous but if she really liked ryan she should trust him and kno that there is nothing going on between yall

Answer 2

Kristie should cool her jets. well my advice would be to tell Ryan what she is doing to you. she has no right to hate you. if your friend ryan is really a good friend he will talk to her and tell her to stop. other wise I would guess that he doesn't really wanna be your friend. since she isn't just going to stop hating you untill she has a clear reason that he is not really involved with you. hope this helps. sorry girls are mean.

Answer 3

well, that girl seems like she can't stand any type of competion.

she's pretty obsessive, huh?

maybe you should make that guy break up with her.

i mean it seems like she won't stop until you aren't friends anymore.

that type of girl doesn't make a good girlfriend, and you'd what's best for your friend, right?

hope this helps, and good luck. :)

Answer 4

your bestfriend's girlfriend has an issue. you gotta tell your bestfriend this situation so he can resolve it.  

Answer 5

That bi*** needs to quit calling you.

Tell the guy (Ryan) to tell her to quit calling you.

If she doesnt quit, then tell him to break up with her

Shes just jealous!

I hope everything works out :)

Answer 6

find new friends !

Answer 7

no she doesn't have a right to hate you but unfortunately, this happens all the time.  she's probably jealous of your relationship with your best friend and feels like you are a threat to them.  

you might want to try to talk to this girl and explain to her that you have no feelings towards your best friend other than friendship.  if you can't reason with her then i would talk to your friend about it.  if you don't feel comfortable telling him what she's said to you, which is understandable with having to deal with her friends, then just ask him to ask her to leave you alone.  

either way, its a hard situation to deal with.  you are kind of stuck and i'm sorry.  i guess you have to decide which is the lesser evil, her friends possibly being angry with you or her constantly calling you.  personally, i'd opt for trying to settle things with her then going to your guyfriend and just dealing with the other girls.  

Answer 8

she is jealous and is harrasing you. file a restraining order and print out the paperwork on all her calls,,, its proof of harrasment  

Answer 9

Yeah she is jealous she thinks she can have her man in check (in other words control who he talks to, and who his friends are, etc.) I think she doesn't trust you or him and she probably thinks you like him more than a friend. Let him know what she's doing and if he really cares about you he will do something about it.

Answer 10

You shouldn't have to do anything!  She starts something, and I hope she doesn't, she will lose him and possibly face something more serious.  Why girls get like this is beyond me!  They should be after their so called boyfriend if he cheats on his girlfriend not the innocent third party.  She's obviously has no trust in him so I really don't see this working out in the long run. Too bad you have to go through this though, stand your ground!

Answer 11

the next time she calls tell her she has the following choices:

A) stop and everything is cool

B) continue and not only be reported for harrassment to the phone company and police but also Ryan will be informed of her crazy conduct.

Answer 12

Most girls have a hard time dealing with a guy who is best friends with a girl. When she calls just try to explain your relationship with him, Maybe she will understand and become friends with you as well. If she doesn't then oh well, it will be her loss and not yours

Answer 13

Sounds like she likes you and his hiding behind the hate. But tell her bf (ur friend) to let her know whats up....if you guys are really close then she should understand and he should tell her to back off or get lost. Or maybe she's playing with you...girls are dumb hehe =P

Answer 14

i hate when girls do that i went through something very similar and guess what

they eneded breaking up

you need to call his gf and tell her to shut her trap because the more she keeps harassing you the more its pushing her boyfriend(ryan) on the edge

because u two are obviously just friends and obviously he wouldnt put up with **** like that as you stated

so you need to tell her if she doesnt back off the **** will happen

And she will be the one losing out

Answer 15

be honest with him and tell him whats going on. you shouldnt let someone treat you like that.