Help me I'm scarred? please read?

Question

This may sound really bad but I am scarred of hurting my baby. The reason is because i always see on the news how mothers are killing their children and I would NEVER want to do that. I just don't want to freak out a;ll of the sudden. Are any other mothers (or even fathers) ever scarred they might go psycho. Also, What can i do to make the scarry thoughts leave. i tried talking to a therapist about it and she didn't seem to understand. I love my baby please understand that.

Answer 1

i m agree with the s_parker do as she says cause there is nothing more i cant tell,stay positive and keep busy urself think about good thoughts and trust keeping urself busy helps alot more then alot so do that u kno the secret i thought m the only 1 but its not about the baby its abt everyone and 1st time that thought came in my mind when i was 16 years old and now i have a healthy 4 year old loving husband and everything is just fine u kno what i did whenever these thoughts came in my mind i divert my attention and start thinking about the other good things and told myself its not real and should not think about the things that i snot real and u cant do i mean i kno u r the best person so m i i never hurt anyone and i cant see anyone in pain so i m perfectly alright its ok let it go be relax and talk with ur dr its best if u talk to ur mom or sister or good friends they can help u too and ur partner specially do not be afraid everything will be just fine.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

This is normal with postpartum depression. You think bad thoughts that you would never do and then your really upset with yourself for even thinking that. Dont worry you are not alone with your thoughts. I think you should call your OBGYN on Tuesday and let them know you are having these feelings and thoughts and you want a appointment ASAP! They should get you right in and then they should be able to determine what other options there are for you. Depression is very treatable and easy. I know you love your baby it sounds like you do! I am aslo wondering if you have support? Maybe your mom or sister or grandma can come over to help you out and let you have some time to relax. Have them come over in the comfort of your own place so you can shower maybe put a little makeup on and have adult conversation.

Stay positive and call your OBGYN on Tuesday. They will help you and get this worked out for you!

Take care and good luck!

Answer 3

Try not to think of it.Stay positive.If you really love your baby,those bad things your thinking will never ever gonna happen.Just be positive.And stop thinking too much negative.

Answer 4

sweetie, calm down.....and your baby loves you........you'll be a great mommy, just don't worry and do your best. the worst hurting you can cause to your little angel is not surround them with your love.  

Answer 5

there is nothing wrong with u.its normal for u to feel so charged up becz u r a mom & u r responsible for a life.do u really want the scary thoughts to leave?pray whatever religion u believe in.stand in front of the mirroe & say that u r a great mother.u dont need some shrink or anyone to tell u that.just say it from the heart & the thoughts & doubts will go away.please also try to do some yoga.u will feel a whole new person if u start doing it.

Answer 6

I don't know of any parent who has not been pushed to limit by there child. When you get to that angry you justw alk away from the situation. It doesn't matter if your child is screaming and crying if you feel like your about to lose control just walk away. Take 5-10minutes to compose your self and then you go back to deal with the situation.  

Answer 7

how scarry

Answer 8

realizing  that you just brought a child into the world is a overwhelming feeling. i think you are good i mean you should see a therapist if it gets worse but i mean like you aren't crazy.

Answer 9

relax.. there are times when i think about tying my kids up and putting them in a closet.. doesnt mean i will ever do it.. sometimes the crying gets to a point where you dont know what to do.. let me tell you a little secret.. it wont hurt your baby to cry. so if ever you feel like you dont know what to do and u think u might hurt the baby.. just lay the baby down in its crib and walk out of the room.. let him cry for a minute.. when you have calmed down.. go in and hold him..

i doubt you would hurt your child unless you have severe mental issues.. you hear of stories where mothers harm their children but most of these women are mentally insane in need of serious medical attention.  there is also post partum depression and if you feel you have the symptoms then you need to speak with your ob/gyn and they will know how to help you..

calm down relax and dont worry ..

Answer 10

ummm wow thats scrry !!