Help me I am 8 wks prego and scared??????

Question

Ok so I am about 8 to 9 weeks prego I have been to the docs and I have seen the baby's heartbeat.The docs says everything looks supper my hcg are at 20,000 she says everything loks wonderful ok so my question is I have had two miscarriages before and I want to know at this early weeks if I would miscarriage how would it be? because with one miscarriage I was 5 wks and I did start bleeding went I went to the doc they said I was miscarry already but the second one I was 20wks I went for the ultrasound and there was no heartbeat I didnt bleed at all. So at this early how would I know if am miscarry is it only if I start bleeding or what the thing is since my first pregnancy I had never experience mornign sickness or anything and right now m the same I havent experience any morning sickness at all the only thing well my breast are sore thats about it and my tummy is getting bigger already I was weighting 118 before prego and I am at 128 already please help me ?

Answer 1

If there is a heartbeat, this is a potential pregnancy. They say that the third time is the charm...Good Luck, for I too have had a miscarriage.

Answer 2

There is no way of really knowing ahead of time. Try to stop worrying yourself so much that buts a lot of stress on the baby. Try to relax and go with the flow. I never had morning sickness with any of my pregnancies.  

Answer 3

First of all, stop worrying.  It isn't going to do a thing to improve your situation.  If you work, quit your job and stay home and relax all the time.  Don't lift heavy things (nothing over 5 pounds, or the size of a gallon of milk), rest with your feet up, try not to climb stairs if you don't have to, and eat healthy.  I will pray that you carry this baby to full term.