Help me !!?? I need help!!?

Question

Well I am just after having a He argue with my mom and I said shut up to her and called her a b*tch!!

I feel really guilty but it was not just my fault!!

What should I do??

BTW she is just home from work and is really tired??

Answer 1

Take responsibility for what you said that was wrong and apologize. The words from your mouth are 'your fault'. Plus if you apologize, it can open up the issue on a friendlier tone so that you two can work things out and not have any lingering bad feelings.  

Answer 2

Honey, any time you call your Mom a name, it IS your fault.  I know you get angry, but the mature way to handle it is to walk away and wait until everyone has calmed down a bit.

What should you do?? :

   Can you tidy up the kitchen for her?

   Offer to help make supper

   Tell her how sorry you feel.

   Calmly explain (later this evening) that while you don't always agree with her, you know she wants only the best for you.

Trust me, those will make it better.

Answer 3

apologize. Tell her you were tired/stressed/angry whatever.  

Answer 4

Don't bother her and she will get over it in a day or two.