Help me!! Relationship problem!?

Question

Ok so basically

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now

but now he is away on a round the world trip for 6 months (he's already been there for about two and a half)

anyways...the other night, the guy who i knew had a crush on me kissed me and i didnt stop him

i had a huge crush on this guy before i started dating my current boyfriend.

I'm honestly not trying to make excuses for myself I just feel pretty awful right now.

what should i do?

tell my boyfriend?

break up with him because i dont know if this kiss showed me that i dont love my boyfriend anymore

or just leave it

by the way i feel absoultey awful and I'm only 18

thanks

xxxx

Answer 1

i think you should tell your boyfriend because i think you owe him honesty...and maybe if you didn't stop this guy you may still have a thing for him

Answer 2

Hey,

thats a horrible situation, i know how you must feel being stuck in the middle. I dont believe if you truely love someone you would cheat on them, however if you care enough of what his reaction will be to you telling him you must care... In the end you have to do what you believe is right, whether that be keeping it a secret or telling him. Good luck i hope you make the right decision.. try not to hurt anyone else.

Answer 3

No, don't tell him.  It's natural that you feel this way at your young age.  Just keep things light, and see how it goes.  He left for six months, come one.  What's he doing?

Answer 4

TELL HIM. KEEP IT REAL.

BY BEING HONEST YOU WILL ONLY KNOW IF WHAT YOU

DID WAS REALLY WRONG, OR IF IT WAS DONE OUT OF

BEING LONELY AND MISSING YOUR BOYFRIEND.

I SAY TELL HIM..

CURLY

Answer 5

call him and tell him what you did, but make it sound like you really didnt mean it

so cry and stuff

it's nothing better than to be honest cause things could get ugly

Answer 6

your boyfriend needs  to know the truth i gas fell for him for the wrong reasons,u neva loved him enough to be faithful to him.he only went for few months,how about years.take reisponsibilty for your actions you are old enough.

Answer 7

well make sure that you love him. after what i went through back then. god helped us of getting along. asked god to help ya.