Help me Sun Aries Moon gemini venus aries and mars pisces

Question

im 31 and male im on my sisters account

I keep fantasizing about a woman who is a libra sun moon capricorn venus scorpio and mars aquarius and I don't know why. I've distanced myself from her since she is getting married and she thinks I hate her but I can't stand to hear her voice or be around her yet I yearn to do so? She can talk too much which irritates me but then a part of me wants to know all about her. Why is there this magnetic appeal to her? I'm trying to move on and focus on my scorpio sun libra moon and virgo venus and mars but all i can think about is the other girl even though I know the scorpio is a better match. Why can't I stop wanting this girl and thinking about what could have been? I want her to marry her husband I know he's better for her but I feel jealous and this strange attraction I know I shouldn't have. I also know the libra sun is less physically attractive than my scorpio gf so what gives. It's this strange feeling I want the other one to love me but I don't want to date her Im confused and too old to deal with this **** it doesnt make sense

Answer 1

  If the Suns oppose clear definition would be given to the strange, heavy attraction that you feel for this person. Opposite signs attract each other very strongly , because they innately feel that they each have what the other lacks. This usually leads to a very heated relationship, sexually.

If the Venus and Mars are connected by any aspects, more fascination and extreme sexual attraction are indicated, as well as if your Sun aspects her Mars.

I'd suspect that some Pluto aspects or influences may be in play here, as well as Uranian.