Help me figure out my boyfriend?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been living together since january and last night i was on his internet and noticed he has been flirting with other girls and has taken one of there numbers and stored it in his phone under someone else, i am worried as i love him and i cant say i was on his internet, do you think he is doin somthing wrong?

Answer 1

Confront him, tell him you care about him, ask for an explanation.

If this girl is under a different name on his phone it could just be a nickname, and they could be old friends for all you know. I would confront him and ask.

Answer 2

maybe...... talk to him tell him that you dont like him doing that or see if he does it again.... then if he doesnt it was anything harmful if he does PLAYER!!!!!!

Answer 3

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, but often misconstrued. Trust is not there so that you can do whatever you want, but rather for those "this isn't what it looks like" moments. He should have NO problem letting you go on his internet and looking through his phone unless he's trying to hide something from you. That's the policy my husband and i have. We know all of each other's passwords and if one of us feels uncomfortable about something, we'll say so. Open communication and honesty is another big thing. Just talk to him about it and don't let him go on the defense, because as soon as he does, you know he's hiding something.

Answer 4

looks like the end of the road for yous.Hes deffinately intending or cheating on you

Answer 5

Wrong?  He is not married to you.  There is no commitment.  Just because he wants you in his bed does not mean he wants you in his life long term (otherwise he would have married you).

He is still looking for little Ms Perfect.  I would have no problem telling him that I know about his flirting and gathering of phone numbers.  I would have no problem walking out the door either.

Answer 6

He is up to something.

Answer 7

This is one sneaky individual. Has he put it under a male or female name in his phone? Check his phone for texts or calls made, or is he the kind of guy that has his fone glued to him at all times? I would keep a close watch on him.  

Answer 8

He is probably doing something you would disapprove of or he is trying to get it on with someone else.

It is not a good sign, he bears watching or discarding.

Answer 9

You need to speak to him. I know he will be annoyed but just appologise and be as open and honest as possible. The reason I say this is because I have done a similar thing. I checked my partners facebook emails and there was one where he was flirting with a girl. I felt so paranoid after reading it that eventually I just told him everything and he admited that he had been flirting with her but he saw it as harmless. we had a big talk and now I feel that the trust is back :)

I think once you speak with him you will know in your heart whether he is being honest.

Good luck

Answer 10

If you live together surely its YOUR internet too? You could just say you needed to go online to pay a bill/check email etc and didn't think he'd mind but when you went on this site he used popped up on the screen and ask him straight about it.

It won't be a healthy and lasting relationship if you have this to pray on your mind!

Good Luck

Answer 11

Well yes he is doing something wrong.

All you can really do is talk to him about it.

If it was innocent he wouldn't have stored her number under a different name.

Just don't read too much into it until you've spoken to him, until you have there is nothing else you can do.

Just remember that relationships are nothing without trust, you can love someone with everything you are, but if you don't trust one another it won't work.  

Answer 12

Chances are yes but then you never know unless you confront him about it. Just ask him who this is and what his relationship is with him. If you dont like the answer he gives you then call the number and see what they have to say. Good luck, =]