okay, so my parents are divorced. and even though they are, my father is my mother's ex husband, he is being the best ex husband, by still supporting her, financially. so, i'm 14, and i have a younger sister who's 12. basically, my father raised me. and, my mother raised my sister. so, i'm the sister who doesn't cry over stupid things and i'm more independent than my sister is. my mother may be bi polar & schizophrenic, but, my sister doesn't need to act like a baby all around her. and, since it's the summer, my father suggested that i spend it with my mother. so, now, that i'm with my mother, she ALWAYS takes my sister side, when we are in argument. like, she's such a baby around her. and, i'm always left standing. i tend to yell more then cry. i never let out my emotions, because my mother put me through so much pain in middle school. i have an incredible about of anger towards her. she really hurt me. like, my father told me that when i was younger, when my doctor told me that i had to get surgery, my mother left to washington to see her sister. like, she didn't even care that i was five years old and in pain. and, i got really sick when i was five. it took a while for me to recover from pneumonia. and, especially in middle school, i needed her. and she wasn't there.
what can i do? i know most of you are going to say "go to therepy." well, i'm going to be a freshman the private high school that i've dreamed of attended. and, i'm not going to let her ruin it. and i dont have the time. during the school, i'm not going to see her as much. do we just need time apart?
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