Help me get the girl....?

Question

Im starting to fall for my bestfriends sister. we grew up together but we never really talked or hung out. but now we are really good friends, we hang out all the time we even hang out w/o my bestfriend. we talk all the time about everything. even the guys she likes. we hang out so much that her friends thought we were an item, even her parents thought that we had something going on cause go out and spend all day together and I buy her presents and stuff. she says I'm good looking but she says that she sees me as a friend. I need some ideas to get her to like me, like things to say or do, so she could see that I like her w/o scaring her off. cause I can't get her out of my head and I even dream about her please help

Answer 1

I have to agree with the notion that when something isnt around like it always is-- then is will be missed right?  Or at least it will be noticed that it is missed?   I would give it some breathing room, and see what she does with it. Try to be nice and tell her u have other plans.. U could try telling her that u love spending time with her, and couldnt imagine it any other way, but an old friend has come in and u have to spend time with her too... I would see how she reacts, if she has any - ANY- feelings for u at all at this point, u will see the jealousy come out in her.... Any girl that likes a guy, even just a little will be ready to go to battle for someone to keep other girls away!  I would say this though, If she is taking all ur gifts and enjoying u spending all the money on her-- I would be careful, some girls enjoy that life of the "sugga daddy"...  Be careful so u dont get hurt...

Answer 2

Basicly you need to know if she is interested in more too.  You also need to take it slow because not only she is important to you but so is her brother.  So start simple.  Next time your sitting next to each other or across the table from each other, take her hand.  If that goes well step it up. Ask her out on a date.  Instead of hey lets go see that movie! and we can grab something to eat.  Look her in the eye and say I would like to take you to dinner and a movie.  If she accepts easily be a little more clear and say I mean a date. and if she still says yes well then your good to go!  But again go Slow! dont pounce on her or anything.

Answer 3

Once I was really falling for my best best best friend's brother.  Aside from his temper problem, lack of muscles, and overall rudeness- I still was pretty into him.  

To be honest, that's why I had to get away from her- and her family.

I was too close to her, and the family to stick around.  Because you can't hide feelings forever... and I knew that one day I would be either

-found out

-or let down bigtime OR BOTH

Answer 4

Girls hate to be ignored..... I know it sounds crazy but give her some breathing room.  She knows how you feel about her and since you are always around buying her stuff and hanging out she does not know what it feels like to be away from you.  I wouldn't be rude to her, but I would see her maybe 1 - 2 times a week.  Let her miss you for awhile.  If there are feelings there she will let you know.  You cant force the girl to love you.  Good luck

Answer 5

well really i dont knw wat to say but take a chance, tell her you wanna talk and at least to listen but if she doesn't want you it's best to leave her along, because almost the same thing happen with me and this guy but only thing i was in love but he wasn't come to find out he ask my BEST friend out, so i really understand how'd you feel i mean just try don't "fall in love" just yett homie... let faith control some of it....

thanx,

aly

Answer 6

Maybe you should be honest now, I mean she already told you that you're good-looking voluntarily, right.  Just say,  "We're really good friends & friends are supposed to be honest with each other right?  Well, I really like you & I wondered if maybe we would work out as more than friends."