Help me!! guy help, please...

Question

I'm not pretty, like @ all...but i'm still popular enough at school, friendly with every1 and have a load of friends...i have a good sense of humour and i'm really chatty but i've never gone 2 a mixed school so i'm not comfertable round guys and tend 2 close up...then i'm just an ugly, boring weirdo...how can i relax around guys?? do ya think i hav ne hope gettin a bf??

Answer 1

HI THERE

firstly you must understand that beauty lies in the eyes of a beholder

secondly tell me has your mother ever stopped loving you for this

ask your mama as to how beautiful are you and she will answer it correctly

not every one dies for a pretty faced bimbo

so just be yourself and very soon you will find you match

all the best

Answer 2

Quit seeing them as "boys", they're people.

If you treat them as people, soon you'll be making friends that are male, it's easy to open up and talk to a friend.

Who you are is much more important than what you look like, looks often account for initial attraction, but personality determines if the guy will stick around,

Get to know them, let them get to know you, things will work out just fine for you.

Luck

Answer 3

Every girl has a chance with a bf, just be open to anyone and everyone, don't keep your eyes on a certain type, then you'll never get what you want, great guys come in different packages they can't all be tall, dark, and handsome, just let what comes to you in, and let him or them get to know the real you... nad never call yourself ugly... it's bad for your health and self-esteem!

Answer 4

easy,, do not be so "chatty" ,,real turn off to guys & girls. Also, do not get so "close up"

Answer 5

hey gurl! i totally understand your situation, because unfortunately, I'm ugly too. but i have been around guys all my life. but unlike you i am really shy, because i know most guys won't want to talk to me anyway. but to my surprise, a couple guys actually will start talking to you, no matter what you look like! you have to just loosen up, and act as if your an expert in being around boys! talk about what they like, have a great personality, and don't be annoying, because most guys HATE that. and do not show them that you are scared!!

GOOD LUCK!!