Help me i don't know what to do??????????

Question

i have a man we live for a little time with my sister and he always pay her more attention i know that it wont go anywhere because i trust my sister but it makes me feel neglected he always saying how good she look and comments about what she wear and and **** like that like tonight he say he was going to buy her a motorcycle replica as pity as it sounds we have been together for almost 2 months and all he has given me is a little yellow stuffed puppy and a birthday card am i sounding pitiful or do i have cause to worry yes she has a bf but like i said i trust her i somewhat trust him i guess i am feeling left-out i don't know what to do or how to approach him with this

Answer 1

I mean no offense, but as another answerer has said, living together after 2 months is highly unusual, and I would not recommend it.

If he speaks positively of your sister, I am sorry to say, he is likely comparing you two and finds her more desirable.

You may trust your sister to repel any advances, but what about a guy you have thought would make advances?

I suggest you ask him to leave, and seriously consider the relationship. What are you really getting out of it? He should make you feel special, not like you have to compete with your sister.

Answer 2

This sounds as if there is something more that is wrong here. It is not simply that your boyfriend is not giving you attention, it is that this relationship is not meeting your needs. The problem is he's tying to flirt with your sister or he is buying his good side to her. He has probably got other things on his mind like work or something. Maybe, he does not want your sister to kick you both out since you live with her right now. I think what you guys need now to do is communicate with each other and try to work it out nicely. I cant say your man is man is a fickle beast. It's possible that he's not getting comfortable with the relationship or something is bothering. I think your sister will not cheat on you if your trust  her. Try to talk to him. Hopefully, his intention is bad.. Best luck

Answer 3

well, to me i think he has feelins for your sister, and is not telling you, but he also has feelings about you, so what you need to do is ask him and tell him what you think, and how you feel

Answer 4

Am I understanding correctly, you have only been together for 2 months, you only somewhat trust him, and you are already living with him??