Help me. i feel like i am going to check out of this world cuz im not wanted is this wrong........i

Question

i am 40 and i am at the end of my rope with trying to feel like i belong here

Answer 1

At the age of 40 you really shouldn't care anymore if you are accepted or not.  Join a church group, they will not reject you. And if you are seriously considering suicide, contact a help line immediately... if you aren't it isn't cute to joke.  Ever heard of the boy that cried "wolf!"?

Answer 2

Everyone feels like this from time to time.  Hang on.  Talk to someone even if it's someone you don't know.  Things will get better.  I promise you.  I am the child of a parent who committed suicide.  You may feel like what you're feeling is more pain than you can stand.  I can tell you the after math of what you would leave for those who love you is way worse than you can imagine.  The thing my father did it over turned out to be nothing and silly after a few days.  You can get through anything - hang on even if you're doing it because you love someone else enough not to

Answer 3

you know what STOP! ok look the last thing you should do is check out. There are thousands of people that believe there not wanted here either but believe me your family and friends love you and they would hate to see you leave. Go see a counselor maybe you think you are not wanted because you are deressed take some time off go to gatherings get to know people. Soon you will find people that enjoy the same interests and you start to feel more "welcomed". You might just be around people that are completley diffrent.

Answer 4

ptrobrn:  Your a real richard cranium!

I am sorry you feel this way.  Really I am.  But You should contact someone to talk with, maybe they can give you ideas and the help you need.  Good luck to you.

Answer 5

please don't do that. you do belong in this world. you absolutely do. please give more details in your question of why you feel this way.  

Answer 6

First off I know everyone else above me has said but I feel sorry I really do. I know it doesn't feel good to not be wanted or feel like I don't belong, but you have to listen, you cant go and just get tempoary happiness with things like beer, and hookers, they ll make u happy trust me, but this feeling isn't a matter of happiness, its a sense of belonging. I recommend finding a fun hobby or something, maybe a change in career if your not liking your job. I know Yahoo Answers isn't the best place for something like this but ill try to do the best I can to help. Everyone has a purpose, you just have to find friends, maybe a new hobby. You need a crowd that can support you.

Answer 7

i've felt the same and i'm only 14. but life is a gift and no one has the receipt to go to return it. plz don't do it i know its hard but ur here for a reason even if u don't know what that reason is neither do i but we got to be strong. don't do it for others do it for yourself. ur still young and got a lot left to live so fight for it

Answer 8

i feel the same way tonight.  my husband is being a jerk for no reason, my mom died a couple weeks ago, my dad isn't calling me back.  i feel so unloved & unwanted.  i just want to die, but my daughter is the only thing keeping me here.

i see my shrink in a few days.  i'm currently on 200mg of zoloft, lamictal and strattera.

but i still feel this way.  i think it's because i miss my mom sooooo much!

i feel ya!  it sucks to feel unwanted!  i would see a shrink.  you're not alone.

HUGS!

Answer 9

yes its wrong go do something anything buy  some beer and go get a hooker    

Answer 10

I think you are in the same boat as a lot of other people.  Especially your age group.  There are so many things you can do to feel better and maybe find some answers.  There is always counseling or group counseling.  With group counseling you can meet people who feel the same way you do and connect with them.  Also, you may want to see a doc about getting on some anti-depressents or anti-anxiety meds.  No shame in this- I am on them and they took me from where you are to feeling normal and alive again.  Not artificial happiness, just feeling content.  

Do you go out often?  If not, make a point of getting yourself out of the house and doing things around other people.  You don't have to interact, but it would be great to do so.  Even small things like taking your dog (if you have one) to a dog park, or go to Barnes and Noble and read some books there.  

I have always felt different from others and thought I was always the "weird" one.  Well I probably am sometimes but you just accept who you are and other people will too.  If not, move on and don't fret about it.  There are billions of people in the world, go meet some nice ones!  :-)

P.S.  Please don't leave this world, it would be a shame to lose a person with such heart.

Answer 11

Hi,I think you got some real junk answers here. It is not wrong to feel  like you don;t belong..I too have felt this way at times and  just  don;t do it. Do something. Clean your bathroom,do the dishes just do something physical..Tomorrow  was always a better day for me. If this doesn;t help at all you really should call 911. You'll spend some time in the hospital but sounds like you you need the rest anyhow.

I wish only wellness and peace for you.

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Answer 12

I'm the same age as you are, and I sometimes feel the same way. But for me I have found things that I enjoy doing by myself, and it gives me pleasure to look forward to another day. You have to find within yourself what it is that makes you happy or content. I often feel the same exact way as what you just described. You may need to seek professional help. I sought out for help for a little while, and then after I felt all the money I was spending on the therapy, I made up in my mind that I needed to get a grip on things and started thinking about what it was that was making me feel the way I did. And now, I find comfort in doing what it is that makes me content with myself. Hang in there and try to stay focused, eventually it will come to you.

Answer 13

Dear lonesome,

                     Sorry you are so lonesome in your life at the age of 40.I know what you mean about being lonesome though as I was lonesome for many - many- many of long years. And I know how that is. But luckly I found a love of my life. But you are not interested in that. As I know you need help!!! And I am going to try and help if I can.



                    My suggestion is And this is how I found my love of my life. As I went to pogo.com as this is a game site. And there you can play games and meet people. And maybe find the man of your life. Have to be careful on there and feel them out. As some may not be honest like they seem. As that is anywhere you go. Just talk and find out about them and see if they are for real. I am sure you know how to do that surely. Don't be too interested in giving out like your telephone number. Or house address where you live. Just give them out your first name only. And that is it. Talk for a while. Give it months- year and see if he is really serious. By the end of the year. You most likey will be closer then you think and be more knowing about each other.

Dating Services ON Internet: That is a Big Fat NO_NO. As most of those are frauds. They make like what they are on those sites but mostly they are frauds. As I had one of my buddys determined to get on one of those sites and I told him not to as I told him what could happen. And Yet he went on one of those Love Internet Sites and got burned for over $5,000 dollars. As he was thinking he was talking to a woman and happens to find out it was a man instead. He showed a picture of a woman and her house she had and the insides of the house. But that was all part of a scam. I warned him. But he did not listen. So he learned the hard way. So what I am telling you is this. do not go to DATING SITES OK?

Like I said try pogo.com a game site and try keeping busy with playing games and meeting people. It has worked for many of people on there. As they have found there Mr& Mrs Right. And I did with mine. We have been together now for over 3 years.

And don't be to hard on yourself. I know you are going through ruff times and all. But things will get better I am sure. Find someone that is honest - sincere and willing to be kind and sharing to others. Someone that is not a dominating person. And think woman are good for 1 thing only and that is s*x. You need go with your heart and find someone. Someday someone is going to pop in your life. And change your life completly. And you will never know when that will be. I will pray for you and pray something wonderful happens to you.

Are you a Christain person and go to church? A baptist church or Nazarene church or all faith church would help you get right to help you with your needs also. And you will meet people and develop new friends too. Might suggest you try that. Good Luck and will always be praying for you. REX

Answer 14

You need to seek professional help immediately. Call a family member or close friend and tell them what you're experiencing OR call 1-800-273-TALK to get someone who can help you through this.

I'm sure this is a difficult time for you - you sound very stressed. Please seek help from someone.

Answer 15

Seek professional help... yahoo answers doesn't really care.

Answer 16

Go see a good movie.  I recommend "Pineapple Express."