Help me out please? ?

Question

Hi I'm in year 9 and L*****n i want to come out of the closet but ive only told my sister (twin) and Best friend who's a guy. Theres a guy in my class told people his Bi-sexual and they accepted him (or that's wat I'm told so far.) but I'm not sure there going to accept me coz i just like girls (I'm a girl....) please should i tell close friends will they accept me or hate me???

Answer 1

I suggest you don't come out yet or anything, just wait a few years, figure what you are (bi L*****n whatever) and then come out. 9-year old brats can be (and are) ruthless and will make fun out of anyone or anything.

Answer 2

You will come out when you are ready to. Don't stress so much over it. A lot of people choose not to tell other people until they are in their early 20's and sometimes 30's.

I am not saying to wait until then, I am just saying that when it is right, you will know it.  

Answer 3

You need to make it alright with God first, then report whoever turned you on.

Answer 4

wow i cant believe this really needs to be discussed that much when you are 9 - sorry a little shocked  

Answer 5

I think that you should tell only those that you are comfortable with and that you want to share this with. It may happen that some of your friends will not be able to handle it but at your age it seems that every peer is accepting. They don't start hating until later, hopefully. As for parents, well, email me if you want help telling your parents. You can use the link on my profile. Good luck sweety.  

Answer 6

stop thinking  that you`r a.....you know....chill it out take it slow,in some ways you're just like all your friends ;) ..don`t say it ,only what you think it`s alright,you get too be how you wanna be

Answer 7

just tell ur friends that r real close if they dont except u then they  arnt real friends just tell ur friends and then it will spread email me if u need help with anything else

Answer 8

sorry this is my question i cant remember the d**n account name but sorry my fault in Australia im in GRADE 9 you know high school level

Answer 9

If you're sure, tell only those you are closest to, and you are fairly sure will be fine with it. make sure you make those people understand that it is not ok to out you to other people. It may help to look through some resources for GLBTI teens with them, so they can see what you are going through. If you have any doubt at all about your sexuality or how people will react, you don't have to say anything. Coming out is a continual process, and quite often you need to pick your battles. Good luck and don't try to rush yourself.