Help me! parents took my phone and found bad things, what should i do!?

Question

okay im in a huge fight with my parents and my mom took my phone and she saw a bunch of bad pictures but i wasnt naked.. just bra and underwear. and my mom and dad want to talk to me about it later. i dont know what to do, im so screwed, please help me, dont be mean. i had no chance to delete the pictures. im freaking out. what should i do?

Answer 1

nothing you can do except own up to it and accept your punishment.

you are aware that there are circumstances where you could be charged with creating kiddie p**n because the photos show someone who is underage, aren't you?  It doesn't matter that it's you--it only matters that you created and posses sexually explicit photos of an underage person and whether or not you distributed it.

so what you did is pretty stupid and thoughtless and could be dangerous for your future.

Answer 2

First - you are stupid for taking these type photos in the first place

Second - you are stupid for not deleting them immediately after taking them

Third - you did it, and now you have to take the heat for it.  Stand up like a big girl and take your punishment.

I'm sure your total lack of self respect has disappointed your parents which now causes them concern for their little girl.   If they can't trust you to do the right thing with a phone, I'm sure they are wondering what else are you up to that they are not aware and that could potentially harm you.

Answer 3

Just listen to what they have to say.

I don't know how old you are but if they are unhappy about it, you must be quite young.

Your parents will be upset, not mad. If you are under age, imagine how it feels for them to see such sexual photographs of their little girl.

They will probably just talk to you about how you shouldn't be behaving like this at such a young age, and try to give you a lesson on it.

Answer 4

Blonde32, like Sarah said you need to listen to what your folks have to say as they do sound like they are quite disappointed in this behaviour.  Majority of parents do not like to admit that their kids are partaking in a lot of things that other kids are.  But reality is that many kids do many things without parents consent.  It has been that way probably since the beginning of time.  But before you do sit down and have a mature and open minded conversation with them regarding this subject you would be wise to think of how you can explain it to them as honestly as possible.  If  you try and con them they will probably be able to see it so it will do no good to try and BS them, remember they were kids once also.  Try and keep the tears out of the picture and inform them how sorry you are that they had to find out this way.  Best of luck.

Answer 5

Tell them you were taking photos of your underwear set cos your friend has the same !! and it was a laugh? anything to get out of it lol

Answer 6

The first thing to do would be quit having pictures taken of yourself wearing only a brassiere and underwear.  

Any person to whom those pictures get sent can be charged with possession of child pornography, a very serious crime.

Answer 7

act like a victim tell them you should have never done it and say sorry and start to cry lol... i did it and i got off the hook lol

Answer 8

you are seriously screwed, lol

but you shouldn't of taken pictures first off, and secondly you should have deleted the pictures XD

Answer 9

Learn this lesson:  When you do something questionable, especially if you put it in writing or in a picture, you have the chance that someone will find out about it and judge you on it.  Unless you're gunning for a career as a stripper or a playboy model taking photos of yourself undressing wasn't a very good idea.  Try to keep your actions consistent with what you want in life and you should have better luck.

Answer 10

wow- thats a tuff one!

just tell your parents your sorry and you wont do it again.

and really, dont do it again!

i mean, what is there to say?

how do you explain that you were takling pic's of yourself in your bra and panties?

so, apologize sincerly and really, dont do it again.

good luck

Answer 11

when my parenths ones took my phone what they found gave my mom a hearth atack i knew a pic of the doing that girl was not the right thing to do but no i had to record it

Answer 12

Don't take half nude pics in the first place. Since you have already been caught, blame it on the media.

"Mom, dad, I got the idea from Vanessa Hudgens and Miley Cyrus. All the popular girls do it and I just wanna be liked. It's so hard being a teen in this day and age, don't you understand?"

If that doesn't work, just start crying and don't stop until dad offers you some ice cream.

LMAO, Joking of course. Just be honest with them about whatever they want to know and hope that they aren't too angry with you.

Good luck.