Help me plan my strategy with Scorpio male? please help!?

Question

I apologise in advance for the length of this post. Please bare with me. Some of you may or may not know that I was dumped by a Scorpio male four months ago as he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and I was. Then I ended up getting back together with my ex shortly after, and this seemed to reinforce the Scorpios interest in me as he started calling me and asking to see me again (I guess he felt the chase was back on for him). I still want this Scorpio badly, so I have continued seeing him for the past four months. Some people have told me that this Scorpio wants me, but he doesn't realise it yet and just needs his heart to catch up with his head or something. He usually only calls me when he's drunk to go and see him, and although we always end up sleeping together, it's not straight away and we just enjoy eachother's company and laugh together. But the past two occassions we've been together, he has said some very out of character things. (More to add. Please hang on)

Answer 1

As a scorpio man that's been with a Pisces as my first girlfriend, I can tell you all I really ever wanted was her complete commitment to me.  I never felt that.  I was a virgin, she had been with plenty of other guys.  I made my commitment known to her and she told me she was giving me her commitment.  Then I heard from a friend of mine she was seen with another past boyfriend.  She denied it forever and never confronted the person that told me.  Obviously I knew something was wrong, but I loved her and love is blind so I tried to believe her.  It ruined my trust for 2 more years before we ended the relationship, except I never really told her that.  I continued to sleep with her even when we were broken up during times of her dragging me through stuff like wanting to go to the prom with another senior because it seemed more proper.  My God how stupid of me.  I never would think about cheating on her.  She broke my heart and by being so deceiving and I fought for her for so long, and I still have the pain 13 years later.  I don't give my heart easily, it's horrifying thinking of trusting someone with my heart and putting it completely in someone elses hands.  I need complete devotion, faithfullness and loyalty and need to be reassured of those things.  I may not say it aloud to my partner, but it's what I need.  I know I've fought for someone and lost and it hurt badly.  If he's the man you want, he doesn't want mind games.  I hated having to fight so hard for her after falling in love and hate her for it.  I needed to know she wanted me and loved me as much as I did her.  When we broke up it was a done deal for life, no more communication once I found out I was lied to about cheating and that I was played.  She's probably lucky I left it at that, but I'm not a vengeful person even though I think she deserves it.  At least you're being honest with him though.  He probably loves you way more than you think.  He just can't find a way to say it to you because it's a major weakness to him to state these things.  He's risking his heart if he says these things.  Scorps show through actions, not words as much.  He will also test you for loyalty which he's doing.  He wants to win you and have you forever.  You have to find a way to open him up.  You need to find out if he's really in love with you.  No more games.  I was in his boat and am sorry I ever tried so hard to win her now.  When I open up, I'm vulnerable, and that includes being drunk.  Although scorps and pisces are both emotional and can be irrational, especially when drunk.  I say things I don't mean when I'm drunk sometimes and regret it, and usually apologize if I need to once I'm sober.  You obviously need to get to a better comfort zone so he can open up more once he's sober, but it probably won't happen unless he KNOWS you are into him only, and are loyal to him.  That's obviously what he's going after.  Show some real vulnerability to him first if you have to as this may be the only way to get the REAL him.