Help me plan my strategy with Scorpio male?

Question

I apologise in advance for the length of this post. Please bare with me. Some of you may or may not know that I was dumped by a Scorpio male four months ago as he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and I was. Then I ended up getting back together with my ex shortly after, and this seemed to reinforce the Scorpios interest in me as he started calling me and asking to see me again (I guess he felt the chase was back on for him). I still want this Scorpio badly, so I have continued seeing him for the past four months. Some people have told me that this Scorpio wants me, but he doesn't realise it yet and just needs his heart to catch up with his head or something. He usually only calls me when he's drunk to go and see him, and although we always end up sleeping together, it's not straight away and we just enjoy eachother's company and laugh together. But the past two occassions we've been together, he has said some very out of character things. (More to add. Please hang on)

Answer 1

Wow, wall of text!

Bearing with you, I sent you an email. :-)

Simply because the answer might be 50 pages long if printed:-)

Hotaru

Astrologer/Tarot Reader

Answer 2

he sounds like a scorpio I know... can I ask for his first name?

Answer 3

OK I really feel he is scared because he really cares about you and he knows he doesn't have your loyalty. however i do think in the near future you will get tired and want a real relationship basically all you have to do is when your tired and ready for a monogamous relationship give him a call. And about him being drunk yes those were his true feelings but he needs to cover his butt in case you do reject him he has an excuse he could just say he was drunk. Scorpios are very guarded and defensive when it comes to matters of the heart.

Answer 4

the reason why he isn't with you is he's done alot of tests on you and i've come to the conclusion- as a scorpio that . . .

1. he said "i don't trust you with other guys" out of evreything a scorpio wants in a relationship, is trust, full stop . . . he may love you, but is being pulled in alot of directions, he loves you but doesn't trust you.

2. if i was in love with a guy who was with someone and came to mine and slept with me- i would not trust them! that just tells me, it could happen if i was actually in a relationship with them, they could do that behind my back, just like they have done with their current partner . . .you made a mistake by having a boyfriend and sleeping with him!

3. he has already analyzed everything about you, you getting back with an ex, p*ssed him off, once scorpios are in love and believe the other is aswell, they just want that person to stay single and they are the only person alive, its all or nothing . . . in his head he is the only person that matters, as he does take love seriously . . .

4. once a scorpio trusts you, they will give you your space, they just want that assurance its like an obsession, they need to know everything, everything that they are getting into in order to feel secure . . . maybe he's watched the ways you are around other guys and gave it another thought . . .

basically don't give into him that much, like sleeping with him, playing hard to get attracts him, and someone who has strong will, even if you are attracted to him, don't sleep with him! he'll just think your too easy and it may lead him to thinking that it might happen with other guys behind his back . . .

he just wants ur 100% committment and trust, prove it to him, don't be too smiley or giggley around other guys for a while and always be direct and straight with him, he always knows your hiding something . . .

get his trust!