Help me please, 10 points?

Question

I knew what my friend (A) looked like about a little over a year ago, but then she moved.

We've kept in contact, we talk for like two hours everyday.

But I found out she's scared to show me what she looks like now, because I might not be her friend, anymore.

She's my best friend and and I don't care what she looks like and it's bothering me that she thinks I'd care about that.

What should I do? I'm not supposed to know, it was a private conversation she had online with a friend (who got to see what she looked like.)

Should I put up some pictures of me? I don't like putting pictures up, but will it make her feel better? And would it be hinting that I knew about what A told the girl?

Answer 1

Some girls are shy and they don't want to be seen. I mean she may feel like she is ugly and you will reject as your friend. So just be honest with her Send her an email telling her to call you. Once she calls you be honest with her. Think of it this way. Your having two feelings your heart and your head. One might be saying  who cares how she looks she is so BEAUTIFUL to me and I want to ask her out(Heart) and the other might say" Um.... yeah I don't know if I like you as a friend anymore....(head).. So call her up and be honest with her. You will be fine...  

Answer 2

you should probably tell her something like this.it dosent matter how you look like i just like youhowever youlook like

good luck

Answer 3

it sounds like she might have had an accident, I would let her tell you in her own time, if you wouldn't have seen her anyway, you shouldn't want to see her out of pure curiosity.

Answer 4

DEADMAN WALKING!!

Answer 5

Tell her that with real feelings that you don't care what people look like. What if she's actually pretty? Oh and put some pictures of you which might make her feel better :)

Answer 6

Put some pictures up of yourself and that will help more and you really need to ask her why would she think that you would not be her friend anymore because of her appearance changing. Just convince her enough so she will show you at least one picture.

Answer 7

Just tell her you can show me anything I'll still be your friend...

Just re-assure her that you will stay her friend no matter what :3

Answer 8

Maybe just start a conversation, like...I haven't seen you in a long time. Do you look any different? You haven't seen me in a long time too! I'm going to put pictures up, how about you do so too? I guess something like that. Then if she still says something like no...then tell her that you're my best friend, and i like you for who you are not just for what you look like. it's what the inside that counts.

Hope I have helped.

Have a great day!  

Answer 9

If your friend is just shy than you can show her pics of yourself....

but if not than you should wait until shes ready.  when you talk to her you should bring the subject up once or twice a week....

Answer 10

Can you call her and ask to meet for lunch, coffee, etc?

Answer 11

just show her that you are a true friend and that what ever she looks like will never make you stop talking to her and being her friend, maybe the pictures will help her out. Maybe she showed A this picture to see what she thinks you would say about it and with what ever A said determined if she would show you, if she doesn't wont to show you don't push her into doing it because then she'll just think you want to make fun of her and it'll hurt her feelings and your friendship wont ever be the same, let her show you in her own time, not everybody wants their best friends to see how they have changed if it's embarrassing you would be the same don't you think?