Help me please i'm so upset!?

Question

i've just had a mega fallout with my mum. that ended with her saying that she was gonna call social services to get me taken away! i feel like killing myself! what should i do? thanks for anyone who reads this and answers x<3

Answer 1

I&#039;m sure she didn&#039;t mean it, a lot of people say stupid things when they are mad. Please, get the idea of dying out of your head it&#039;s not good. Give your mom some space and time to cool down then in a couple of days approach her in calmly tell her that you need to seriously talk to her. Express your feelings to her and ask her to do the same. Don&#039;t scream just talk and everything will turn out okay. Hope this feud with your mom gets resolve and good luck! Best Wshes.

Answer 2

People says things in the heat of the moment that they dont really mean, talk it through with your mum. Im sure she was just angry when she said that and a talk will clear the air. Try not to get angry and frustrated with her, stay clam and rational. Good luck xx

Answer 3

in heated arguments ppl always say things they dont mean , so just take a break and cool off, maybe chill out for a while or go for a walk and then after a while it all wont seem so bad and then maybe talk to your mum and make up, its not so hard. remember u only have one mum and she aint around forever!!

Answer 4

What kind of argument did you have? I could never, no matter what kind of argument, tell my children I would call social services on them. Let things cool down and go talk to your mom. I had a lot of issues with my parents growing up. I did all kinds of things to make it better and none of them worked. I actually was put in foster care and an all girl&#039;s group home when my mom left and my dad didn&#039;t want anything to do with me. I know it&#039;s hard, do not kill yourself. That will solve nothing. You&#039;re life is very important and God has a plan for you. Talk things over with your mom. Fix it now before it gets worse. Good luck hun &amp; God Bless you.

Answer 5

dont kill urself, that would be a stupid thing to do

let it cool over with ur mum, stay at a mates house tonight, whose fault was the arguement if it was urs apologise.

ur mum prob said that in a rage and prob regretted saying it

Answer 6

Don&#039;t kill yourself, that would do no good.

People argue all the time, I know it is hard but your mum loves you she didn&#039;t mean what she said. When people are angry they say stupid things that they will later on regret. If the argument was your fault you should go and apologize, if you are on good terms again you will feel so much better.

If you need someone to talk to e-mail me.

Good Luck and am hoping you feel better soon.

Answer 7

stop being a lil **** obv.! lol

Answer 8

hiya, don&#039;t worry she will be sad that she said it,let things cool down,and i bet you, she will be hugging you by tomorrow.we always say things in hast,but don&#039;t really mean it.xx

Answer 9

Don&#039;t worry she won&#039;t do anything it will all blow over soon.

Answer 10

i think you&#039;re being a bit rational. your mum might be having her own problems and this argument just pushed her and she said something she didn&#039;t mean to maybe make you feel bad or to stop arguing. sit down with your mum and say sorry for whatever the argument was about say your side but don&#039;t get into an argumnt again. i hope everything works out.  

Answer 11

your mom and is not really going to call social services.  she loves you she really does she was probably just caught up in the heat of the moment and people don&#039;t think clearly when they are upset.  Apologize to her and she will apologize to you.  The only way you can fix this problem and repair your relationship is for you and your mom to sit down and talk.  Don&#039;t kill yourself.  That is the most stupid and selfish thing anyone could do in their life.  don&#039;t do it and I mean it.

Answer 12

Get out of the house and go some place and cool off.

Right now your emotions are running wild and you may say something that you later regret.  May be you will need to spend the nigh at a girlfriend&#039;s house. There you can vent to them, tell the about your true feelings about the situation to him/her. They should be someone who will just sit and listen. Only ask for their advise if you really want it, otherwise just talk.  Depending on the nature of the situation, and your age you may not have to tell her where you are going. But for now just go and clear your mind and then let decide what to do.

Eventually after you both calm down, then you two can begin to address the issue(s) between the two of you.

Many church [pastor are trained to work with people in various situations like yours. If you attend or feel conferable do so go to one now and just talk to them... they really do want to help you.

Good luck and bless you    

Answer 13

Awww don&#039;t worry about it she probably doesn&#039;t mean :D oh i just wanna hug you lol. Seriously i argue with my mum all the time and i know it hurts when they say nasty things but you have to hold you head high and ignore it Just go and watch a cheesy teen film and cry in to a bowl of ice cream hehehe. And don&#039;t ever say you want to kill yourself because your life&#039;s worth more than that. hope that helps a bit x

Answer 14

Let it cool off and go and speak with her tomorrow.

It must have been bad if she said that to you. Is it you or her or just both of you? You need to take a step back and look at how you can improve your relationship.

When I was between 15-18 I treated my parents so badly and I really can&#039;t describe how horrible I was and looking back now know they never never deserved it. It really grates on me every time I think of it and it does make me very emotional because I hurt them so much. If I was them I would have called social services. Luckily they didn&#039;t and they stuck by me and I wouldn&#039;t be the person I am today without them and their guidance.

Loose the selfish attitude(going to kill yourself?!?! Very selfish) and learn to respect your mother. You never know when she won&#039;t be there anymore.

I do hope it all turns out ok, but please sort it out. Maybe try and arrange a shopping day together or a day away somewhere...jump on a train for the day and head to the seaside! It will give you both a chance to chill out and spend some quality time together.

Good Luck!

Answer 15

Dont get so wound up about it :) she&#039;s your mum and she wouldn&#039;t do that. She is jst angry and people say things that they do not mean when they are angry. Just stay out of her way if you dont want to appologise. She will feel sorry for what she said and will come to you. You probably said things to her that you regret as well. I&#039;ve been there myself and trust me, you two will both be fine soon and she isnt going to call social services. Go and say sorry or just sit in the same room as her, it&#039;s better than nothing. x