Help me please i need to know?

Question

one day i tried masterbating without it and i didnt last very long. the nxt day i put some on and i lasted longer.i could barely finish. so i was wantin to use it wen im havin s*x to last longer. i was wanting to know if its safe to use it with a latex condom. i tried the durex desinitizing lubricant and to me i dnt thnk it has enough benzocaine in it to do the job it just 7.5% and the anbesol is 20%

Answer 1

It would help if you told us what the h**l you are talking about!

If your talking about lubricant, then try astroglide or K-Y Jelly.

Answer 2

Are you talking about lube?  Premature ejaculation prevention?  Try to ask the question so it's understood and can be answered properly.

If you have premature ejaculation, the best way to delay it it to slow down, pull out while having s*x and do something else to keep your lady occupied and excited.  Let the need to come back off and go again.  You'll last longer and be a more satisfying lover.

Or you can teach your lady to help you when you are getting ready to come- pull out and let her squeeze the head of your p***s between her thumb and forefinger to reduce the urge to come.  Keep doing that and it will help you last longer.  That's what the s*x therapists have taught for a long time.

Or you can m********e before you see her to take some of the edge off and see how that affects your performance.

The problem with using desensitizing lube is that it only works for awhile and then it won't work.  Your body becomes accustomed to it.

Work on your style- and remember, young men can recharge quickly enough that  if you come quickly the first time, you'll be able to have s*x again fairly quickly.

Answer 3

WHat exactly did you go without using?

Answer 4

whats your question