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Question

Okay so i am in middle school, 8th grade and I want to ask out this girl. But I really don't how to say it or ask her out correctly.... like i'm in middle school so its different because they don't go like on a date or anything. so what do I do? what is the best way to word it????!?

Answer 1

just ask her if she is going to any foot ball games this year and if he says yes the ask her if she would like to go with her or find out what she likes and talk to her about that. if you really lesson you can find out what she likes and that is a way to start up a conversation with her

Answer 2

Hey Taylor,

Ok, first of all I just want you to know that I am not just responding to this question looking for points, I just hope this might help.  I am in my early 20's now, and I totally remember about middle school.  In some ways it was so fun, but in other ways its a really weird time/place-- do you know what I mean?  Like your example about wanting to ask somebody out, but its kind of different because you can't drive yet or really go out many places.  Also, from what I remember, its also sort of one of those times when everything seems awkward.  LIke, if you want to tell this girl that you like her, its like you have to do it in front of all her friends, and then even though she probably likes you back, she might have to act weird because her friends are there-- blah blah blah.  You know this situation, right?

So, keeping that in mind... I think the best thing is just to be honest.

But, keep it simple.  I would just say: "Hey, (insert name), I like you. Will you go out with me?"  or,  "I like you (insert name), wanna go out sometime?"  Just be honest, be simple, and keep in mind ahead of time that her reaction is prone to all that middle-school stuff that is out of your control and hers.  Depending on what your parent's rules are and your curfew/budget and stuff, you can always find ways to "go out", like if your school has homecoming or a halloween dance, or maybe like meet up at the movies or something.  Does that sound dumb?  Anyway, the cool thing is that you like her and you're actually going out of your way to figure out the best way to let her know.  That in and of itself says you are cool and mature.  So, just be calm and sincere.  And I know this sounds stupid, but don't forget to smile!

Good luck, dude.  I hope this helps.  Go for it!

Answer 3

  when I was in 8th grade they sure went out on dates, you just went up and said, would you like to go to (name where you want to go), and hope she says yes. If not try another until they say yes treat all girls as one of the guys and be honest, that's it really no secrets. School dances are a good start but too public for much try a movie and dinner at the malls food court.