Help me pleaseee:( !?

Question

i have been off the pill for around 4 months now i had a withdrawel bleed and then a proper period on the 30th of july. i havent had a period since. i have been getting a yellow discharge, sore nipples and they seem to be a different colour dark maybe around my nipples, i have got a lot of wind and keep getting a pain down my left hand side. i did some pregnancy test about three weeks ago. and they were negative so dont know if i am pregnant because i dont know if it was too early to tell. i have unprotected s*x throughout the course of all four months. i have also been very tierd sleeping alot, eating alot. i dont know how to tell my partner i need another pregnancy test i dont know how he will take it. please could someone give me some advice do you think am pregnant?

Answer 1

First, why do you have to tell your partner that you need another pregnancy test?

Second, all of your symptoms are ones that you might have if you were say...8 months pregnant or about to give birth (except for the being tired part)  So unless you notice this huge bump in your shirt, odds are they are not related to pregnancy.

But that doesn't mean you aren't.  Go to a doctor and get your random symptoms checked out.  With all the discharge, I'd have some STD screenings run, since you have had a lot of unprotected s*x. While you are there, request that they do a pregnancy test on you.  Then you can know for sure.  Regular trips to a Gynecologist are normal and healthy for a female and if your partner balks at it, I'd wonder if he were really the type of guy you'd want to be with since he displays so little concern for your personal health.

Answer 2

Hi there,

I'm not a doctor, but with your symptoms, it would be advisable to see one.  If you are pregnant, you need to know in order to take care of the baby and yourself properly.  Don't wait.

If your partner was willing to have unprotected s*x with you he should also be willing to accept the responsibility that comes along with it. I'm not lecturing but if you cannot tell your partner that you need to have another test, how would they take it if you were pregnant?  Just a thought.

You owe it to yourself and your (possible) baby to get checked out.

Deal with the partner later.

Right now, you need to take care of YOU!

Peace,

Cilla

Answer 3

It does sound like you are pregnant i had the some symptoms with my first, if you can go and see a doctor and have a blood test done if your worried about ur partners reaction try and go when he is at work, or search ebay for pregnancy tests i regularly get 2 tests for $2-$3 with free post. They are exactly the same as the ones as the shops but without packageing they come in a plain unmarked envalope. the best time to do the test is first thing in the morning & when you think ur period is Late, ebay should take about a week to get to you.

hope ive helped ;)

  

Answer 4

Pregnancy tests 3 weeks ago would not have been accurate at all because that was only about 2 weeks after your period started.  The only way you can know for sure is to take another test.  From your symptoms it sounds possible.  If you are expecting a 28 day cycle then you are a week late, a test should be accurate now.  Good Luck.

Answer 5

You may well be, so you could be tested at the Doctors without telling your partner. It could also be a worry for nothing. Because your are stressed and worrying about it all, your body may perform some of the symptoms of being pregant, which would explain the sore nipples etc. I'd visit the GP to be sure and to put your mind at rest.

Good luck x

Answer 6

It does sound like you're experiencing symptoms. Before you worry yourself too much go and get a good, recommended test and do a test first thing tomorrow morning (the hormone is most promient in the first morning urine).

Your parnter will understand, unless he didn't know you weren't on the pill then perhaps you have a problem.

Good luck

Answer 7

Sounds like you could be. I suggest you go and see your GP asap ust to be sure

Answer 8

relax... just go to your doctor or just buy preg test and have test again. and i wish you are...... good luck