Help me ppl! i dont think i can every love ANYONE?? even family?? and i hav no clue why! =[

Question

yeah, so that says it all. i mean of course i say i love my family, my best friends, my bf. but idk if i do honestly. wud i die for my mom? IDK! i realy think that i might not. do u only love sum1 if you'll die for them, cuz i'd miss her terribly and cry every night, but idt i wud die for her. it makes me feel bad 2, sayin ily to my bf. i've never sed it first tho, he says ily and i say ily2. but hes done it like 50 times...so HELP PLEASEE! =/

Answer 1

You are going through a time of questioning of yourself. Find and remember the good times with your family your friend. Remember why you say I love you. Know why you love them you just need to remember and find yourself.

Answer 2

listen, firstly, no one knows weather or not they would die for someone unless something actually happens that would make them sacrifice their lives or not

secondly, i think u've jst watched way too many dramatic movies that shows when ppl sacrifice themselves or soemthing for their loved ones and now you've got it in ur head that the only way you can love someone is to die for them and that's not what love is about, its about knowing that they're the ppl u care about most in the world

so stop feeling guilty about saying i love u to ur bf and next time u see him, tell him u love him before he says it to u first

dw, u'd probably be surprised what you would do for ur friends nd family =]

Answer 3

How old are you?? This makes all the difference in the world,,,,, After you mature you learn what the meaning of true love is,,,,,  Enduring hardships, happiness, sickness, health, funtimes, boring times,, bad times and good times,,,,,,,  Thes are just a few of the things that you learn with true love,,,,,,, So don't worry,, as you mature you will learn   Good Luck