My friend and I have been having a few problems with our relationship. We (moreso I) have talked about the issues and to no avail things havent change...
We went away for the weekend. I thought that the time away from home would help to put things into perpective and to have a fresh start. Well, the bombshell came from the both of us. He told me that he had meet someone and have been talking to her on the phone for a little over three weeks.They both have something in common (both of them are having issues with their mate). He went on to say that they are not attracted to each other (yeah right). She sent him pictures to his phone. He erase his call history. He sits in the car to have a conversation with her. I did not get upset as I had alittle secret of my own that I wanted to share.
I met someone while I was at his job (a colleague). The guy and I had spoke on the phone for a week and half. I recently told him before all this came to play, that I need to give my relationship a 110% of my attention and I needed to not talk to him any more. The colleague was very understanding. I told my friend what I did and he was ready to end our relationship. Why??? When infact he did the exct thing I did, but not with a colleague.
My question is why get mad or upset over something I did when he did the same thing?
Would you end the relationship?
Would you continue to have a relationship with the new person you met?
Could the trust every be restored?
How would you go on from this?
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