Help me with my confidence problems!?

Question

I am a boy aged 15 and i get told alot that i am attractive and that girls like me.. but i lack in confidence to speak to them and flirt. How can i improve my confidence to talk to them and flirt and go for a move etc...

please help!!!

Answer 1

You'll get confidence as time goes on. You're still a child. When I was 15 I was exactly the same. I naturally gained confidence through my late teens and early twenties (I'm 25 now) and I have no problem with talking to girls - and even got married to one.

Don't worry dude. It'll come with time.

Answer 2

Young man I am telling you that at 15 you have lots of time.

However to answer your question here it is.

Don't try to flirt yet. Take it one step at a time.  Go to functions like church or the lunch room and just go sit next to or just behind the girl you have your eye on.  Then  just start talking about what is going on in the room.  If she gets up and leaves don't follow her. Find another girl to talk with.  

Get tongue tied?  Just tell her you like her hair or her shirt or shoes or what ever.  That puts the ball in her court. She can just say thanks or she could just start talking with you.

Walk into a room and smile at a girl you like. This makes her feel special. If she walks in after you then smile and offer her a seat next to you.  If she does not take it don't be upset. Perhaps she is there to meet someone. Try again another time.  

If a girl is walking down the hall and you know she is in one of your classes make up a question to ask about the class.  See what she does.

If the girl does not smile and start talking just chalk it up to her loss and go to the next one.

Remember that girls are not magical creatures they are just people. They just need to get to know you.

Answer 3

you probably are being fooled by their "showiness"..they probably are a lot like you in ways, they just dont show it.

just try and find one that is nice and considerate for your feelings and you can maybe find one that you can talk to like how you want.

Answer 4

Girls are just like people. Treat them as man when you wanna talk to them. They too are just shy like you. Just make the first move...

Answer 5

remember what people have told you. and if you want to work out if a girl likes you secretly, look up "signs of attraction" on google and it will tell you how girls try to tell you that they are interested in you, im a girl and trust me its true!

Answer 6

Listen to the man, help him!!!

where are the chicas coming to help?

x*x

Good luck son = ]

Answer 7

u sound like i used 2 b. only im 22 and a female. I got my confidence when i worked at a call centre for 6 months. talking 2 ppl on phones frightened me and i thought id never do the job, now i couldnt give a d**n. its just a person. they are made everyday. ppl are just 2 eyes, a nose, mouth,etc. gals are just oppostie 2 boys and have diff personalities.  just be yourself your only young still and got whole life ahead of u just do things that'll bring out ur confidence. diff kinds of clubs, diff hobbies, things that'll bring u out of ur shell. some times even dating a gal opposite 2 u will bring u out of ur shell  

Answer 8

practice makes perfect..however you dont need to make a move since your only 15, trust me!! when u get to about 18 everything will flow just naturally!! and by then if u get a girl pregnant the legal responsibility will be passed on to you! not ur parents