Help me write my ex a letter?

Question

My ex broke up with me when he found out i was pregnant, we went out for two years.. now he has another girlfriend! i find out the gender in a few weeks. he blocked me online and he told me he hopes me and the baby dies... but he always said, if anything tell me the gender!!! i want to write him a letter, and just make him feel like c**p. he hurt me soo much and i was thinking of writing something like this it would hurt him:

everyday i wake up and have this ache in my chest. and sometimes i just sleep in because i know when i wake up you're not gonna be there. one day you're gonna wake up and feel that same ache in your heart. and you'll realize how much i love you. and when that day comes, i'll still be waiting for you. and you'll come home to us, me and your baby. i did two things i never did before, i lost my virginity and fell in love. and i lost them both. people that are meant to be together always find their way. and somewhere adding in that its a girl or boy!!

Answer 1

If I were you I wouldnt do anything. I would just forget about him like he has with you and the baby! You will find someone else that will care about you and that baby. One day he might realize everything he missed out on and it will be his own fault... Dont even give him the benefit of the doubt to tell him the s*x or let him know that you are hurting.... He doesnt deserve that much!

Answer 2

Honestly, don't do this.  Who cares if he wants to know the gender? You are just using this as a way to not fully cut ties with him.  For your sake and your baby's, end the relationship and any communication discussing the relationship.  I suggest you go see a therapist to help you get over this jerk.

Answer 3

I wouldn't bother it will just drive him further away. I tried all of that, my ex left me for another woman when I was pregnant. His baby is now 4 months old and he has not seen her since she was 1 week. He has told everyone he isnot the dad.

Trust me, leave him alone and get on with your life, do the best you can for your baby and draw your family close by you. The time will come when he wakes up and realises that he has lost the best thing in his life, and when it does he will be full of regret but you will be strong and then it will be you who calls the shots. He will either shape up and be the best father/partner he can be or he will do nothing about the fact he has lost his child and you will be better off with out him.

Just do the best you can for you and your child.

Answer 4

DON'T DON'T  PLEASE DON'T......write him any letter.....!!!!!!! He is NOT worth your time.

The moment he said he hopes you and the baby dies he no longer needs to be in your life or the babies...  

Trust me........ no best written letter in the world is going to make him see what he did was wrong..

PLEASE..... center on your baby and forget about him..

Answer 5

Don't.  He's made it very clear he doesn't care about you or the baby.  Writing him won't help or solve anything.  You may think it will make you feel better to tell him what he did to you but it will never bring you closure or peace.  Tou will continue wondering and stressing, and right now that's the last thing your baby needs.  The baby needs a strong confident mother who will be his/her rock.  Please try to deal with your hurt however you can, and move on, for your baby and for yourself.  Leave him in the past, it's his mistake and his loss.  Plus, why would you want him back after that?  He doesn't love you.  You made a bad decision but now you need to make all the right ones.  He's a jerk that doesn't deserve you!

Answer 6

NO!! do not let him know that you are hurting. even though its killing you inside. they dont care if you cry at night.if you cant eat cant sleep or breathe without them. so dont pour your feelings out to him. if anything you should make it look like your doing fine without him. when you tell him the s*x of the baby its gonna get to him cuz hes either gonna have his little princess or his little boy. and thats gonna be in his mind all day everday. so just let things be the way they are suppose to be. because like you said "people that are meant to be together always find their way".

..good luck

Answer 7

and now that our Little boy/girl is now on the way

there will be nothing you could do or say

for missing out on all his/her laughter and play

you will regret it each and every day