Help! mom wants to come to my school!?

Question

well first, it's embarassing..to me, and second i don't want her to come. she's coming for nooo reason, she wants to talk to the teachers, for what? it's the first day, i mean second day of school..i can handle it!! i don't want her to come!

Answer 1

Well, let her know, but in the end, if she goes, there is nothing you can do to stop her.  It's actually kind of cool that she takes such an interest in you!  If any of your friends tease you, shrug it off and be cool about it.

Answer 2

You say there's no reason but i'm sure this isn't true no matter how insignificant the reason is (e.g. she want to get to know the teacher's better, check you're in safe hands, ask about the curriculum). I think you need to talk to your mum. Explain:

- That she can call the school if there is a problem, she doesn't need to go into school.

- That you will be honest with her about homework you get, letters etc. and can reliably relay information to and from school. If she has questions about the curriculum you can ask the teachers yourself.

- That it is embarrassing for you and exactly what you don't need at the moment. I don't know if you're at a new school or you mean simple the second day of term, but if it's the first it's a crucial time for making friends and very stressful for you. Ask her to wait it out a few weeks.

I advise you this though only because you seem stressed out and if she insists on coming it's no big deal. It'll probably be after school so it's not like everyone will know about it. Also, it may be about something that your mum doesn't want to explain to you but I'm sure she is doing the best for you. Just remember she went to school too (probably?) so she can empathize with you.

Answer 3

i don't get why teens are supposed to be embarrassed of their parents.

tell her to wait until open house (it's like parents day).

Answer 4

aww i feel bad for u  

Answer 5

I talked to my mom and said "Mom I'm in high school. You know I love you, but some girls are such snobs, they would make fun of me for you coming. I know I'm not supposed to care what others think of me, but these girls are really mean, and I don't want to be made fun of. Maybe we can meet with the teachers before/after school".

Hope this helps!!!!!!!

Answer 6

just ask her politely, she probably remembers what it was like, if she still comes, just relax, your mind is probably making the situation seem worse than its actually going to be.

Answer 7

Please answer my question:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

I'm not spamming. It seriously is on topic. You are the only who gave me the idea to post it, haha.

Why is it embarrassing to you? If you can find that out, it will be easier to solve the problem. Does she dress weird? Kiss you? Groom you? Etc. Find the root of the problem and STOP IT!

Answer 8

Tell her that you would prefer if she met with the teachers after-school. Most teachers at my school I know stay well after all the students have left, have your mom call up the school and scheadule an appointment with them.

Answer 9

Theres a back to school night for my school when teachers can do that. It is totally unnecessary for her to go to school.

Answer 10

Be like mom I'm not a little girl anymore whether you ike it or not I'm growing up and you need to step off i can handle this by myself.  Shes just one of those moms who likes to be involved in her daughters WHOLE life my mom used to be like that until i told her off.

good luck hopefully you can get through to her. =)

Answer 11

Tell her how you feel about it, and if she still wants to come, see if you can reach a compromise. Like, ask her to come after school, or before school starts or something... Good Luck.

Answer 12

well that a mom for ya if you think that she is goin to imberiz you then ask like your tummy  hert or something