Help my dad is trying to get my mom deported?

Question

my mom has been in the u.s for 20 years! im 14 now! andd shes here legally! she has her work permit and shes working on geting her citizenship! but my dad beat her since i was a little girl! they had me and then when i was 2 he started beating ehr!

he never wanted to help her with ehr immigration he knew she had to go! but he wouldnt go with her and she didnt wanna leave me so she lived through mental and physical abuse for 10 years! she didnt wanna marry him for his papers! she loved him and just wanted some help with that! but he wouldnt he used that to control her! and im 14 yea and they seperated when i was 10 and 1 time he had no job and no place to go we let him stay with us and my mom got him a job with the old company they used to work for !

she begged them because see they didnt want him! but he got it and he moved out then months after he got her fired! and my mom field child support because she needs help to pay for me! and well see hes not on my birth certificate and so he found some way out of it and he doesnt even have to pay for me! and now hes trying to get my mom deported! shes going to immigration in november and he plans on trying to go to! (but also i must add shes married now and its been almost a year so she should get her papers soon and yes she loves him)

and hes trying to make up c**p about her not doing her taxes and working illegaly etc! and he jsut wont leave us alone! i dont want me and my mom to get deported( i was born in u.s and my mom and dad are from canada) and i dont know what to do! my mom wants to get rid of his rights to see me but we dont know how and well shes scared about whats gonna happen at immigration! help? and hes mean to me! he yells at me when im at his house saying hes not there to babysit me because i spill something.

and i ask him to buy me band-aids and he starts cussing up a storm saying he can barely afford for him to eat! but yet hes gone on a vacation in the islands with his 25 year old gf(hes 50) and he bought her a laptop,sewing machine,beer,cigarettes, clothes,shoes,computer programs etc! oh and might i add when my parents were together he pusehd her around,broke her nose, broke her teeth, and threatened that he was gonna kill her one day but see my mom never reported that it was him because she wanted to keep me so when he broke teeth and nose she lied making up some story( i was 3 when he broke her nose)! and a few days ago he told me he wants to break my moms face one day! this si just scary help!

we tryed going to police to get that thign where he cant come within 100 miles of us but they said no theres no evidence he did any of that! and no were not trashy people living in a trailer my parents arent poor and arent rich their in bettween.

her residence wasnt legal! he overstayed her visit as a visitor and my dad didnt want to help her with ehr papers! so you know she was stuck under his powers all for me and i love her for that. and well im fine in the whole situation. my dad has never hurt me hes just yelled thats it. and smacked the back of my head but thats it. its my mom im worried about! its been 20 years and i mean the immigration just wont listen!

im very mature for my age havign gone through this and when we go to immigration my mom gets like a poor lil puppy and gets scared but im not scared of them and i wanna speak for her but they always ask me to leave the office like i freaking dont know what happend!

Answer 1

You have been affected by this rage of your father and there's no solution when anger erupts.

You act out in rage and anger and now you become your father...do you understand that?

You're better than your father and your going to take it one step at a time to correct what needs to be fixed, but retaliation against your father only lets him know that he beat you,but you can reverse that by beating him and you do that by being better than him in every way.

In other words...don't give him the satisfaction.

Answer 2

i dont know much about wats going on in your family...but if your mother is here in the US with permanant resident card for 5 yrs, she can file for citizenship without the help of you dad....you and your mom can have your dad arrested. if your mothers a battered wife and its documented like medical certificate and police blotters...the more she can get her immigration papers without the need for your dads help.

good luck

Answer 3

Hi,

You should do the following :

1. Document all of his misbehavior as much as you can. Keep a journal.

2. Get in touch with the police.

3. If the police do not help you, at least hire a lawyer. If you do not have enough a money to hire a lawyer yourself, go through any human rights group or city office. You CAN get lawyers to represent your Mom's case for cheap in that way.

4. If he is really your father, it doesn't matter if his name is not on the birth certificate. The lawyer will have him go through the DNA / Paternity Test and he will HAVE to pay child support.

5. There shouldn't be anything to worry about if your Mom pays her taxes regularly. She will have to submit those anyway when she applies for Citizenship.

6. They WILL allow you to talk if the case goes to court.

Edit : He WILL lose his rights if you document his misdeeds well and hire a lawyer. The lawyer will get restraining order in place and do everything possible to take away all rights for visitation also. You just have to prove he is a worthless father (as it seems from your statement). Unfortunately, law will not do you any favor until and unless you prove he is guilty.

So, take your time, think straight, chalk out a plan and then execute. If you verbally abuse him or show rage, that will go against you in court.

Answer 4

he cant have her deported if she is here legally stop worrying

Answer 5

people who help illegals should be deported

Answer 6

what an a hole.

Answer 7

This whole story you are telling is absolutely one-sided and told from a sympathetic 14 year old's perspective. They know that at Immigration, which is why they ask you to leave.

Answer 8

See an attorney for help. That is your only option.

If he keeps making allegations against your mother, she will have to keep having deportation hearings and eventually she will loose. You both will be deported to Canada, unless your father wants to keep you.  Once deported, it is really hard to re- enter the US legally.

You can return to the US when you reach 18 if you have the proper documentation to prove you are a citizen.

Avoid the hassle and go see an attorney.

Answer 9

*YAWN*...Take it to Dr. Phil.....lol