Help my family interfers with my children too much?

Question

My family has been banned from my home because they don't think my 3 and 7 year old should get time outs and they freak out when my husband and I give them a punishment. we never hit are children i am a collage student and he works 12 hours a day. Now I am getting a huge guilt trip. I want my children to follow rules. also no one was even supportive of me when I started college and now I'm graduating with a 4.0 and no one will come to see me graduate. Also they do the opposite of what we ask them to do when we state what the children are allowed to do and they all fight with each other in front of my children. we are not strict with our rules but they need to have some should I feel bad or just keep them away

Answer 1

hmmmmmm

you should put them on punishment

and if they disobey u  

can can ground them

  and you will get what u want your children 2 do .  

Answer 2

They are your children and need to abide by your rules.  Sorry you are having it so tuff in getting them to understand.