Help! my girlfriend wants me to quit my job?

Question

i work at my brothers sneakers store in new york and things are really good there.. i get paid a good amount of money, and we get a lot of customers almost everyday.. the problem is my girlfriend doesnt want me working there.. since its only me, my brother and 3 other guys there, i work there everyday and she doesnt like not me seeing me.. she always wants to know where i am and she always thinks im at parties cheating on her.. she works as well and since she makes more money than me(she works at an office) she wants me to quit my job, move in with her, and live off of her money.. and we've only been dating for 4 months..my girlfriend doesnt understand that its really not about the money to me. i get to go to sneaker exhibitions, wear exclusive clothes and sneakers, go to parties, and everything... how should i tell her i dont wanna do that?

Answer 1

tell her no. it's ridiculous to even conceive she would ask you to quit your job!  

Answer 2

SHE DOESNT TRUST U    ITS NOT GONNA BE LONG FOR 2U TO BE NOT TOGETHER LONG ONCE  A PARTNER DOESNT TRUST  ITS THE END.

Answer 3

She sounds like a psycho.

Tell her she either pays all your bills and gives you extra spending money or STFU and get over it.

P.S. Trust is the most important factor in a relationship, with out it you won't last.

Answer 4

There are too many fish in the sea to strap your self down to this one !

No one needs a controlling jerk of a girl or boy friend.

Throw her back!  You deserve better!

I spent too many years with an overbearing control freak but once I broke free I meet a real sweetie who treats me with respect.

You can too!

Answer 5

Just what you told us should work "It's not about the money- I like the exhibitions, the clothes and shoes, and the social networking........plus we've only been dating 4 months."  If she has a problem with that perhaps she should date someone else.  You do admit you like the parties- can't you bring her to some of them?  This may make her more willing to be flexible re the job if she feels included.

Answer 6

4 months? You move and quit your job and you will be a done. She would have all of the power and she could chip you out it a heartbeat.

She is already insecure. Imagine how worse that will get.

It is possible that she knows something...... sneakers and parties is bull in the long run. But telling you things so fast is wrong. You need time to grow up.

Sneakers and clothes? That is all it is about? I like my suits and various things..... sneakers and parties? Low rent all of the way. Note even rappers know how to dress.

Break up with her. You need the grow up and be a man time and realize what is important. She needs to grow up and understand what life is about. But as a MAN..... you know inside what you have to do.

Give her a chance to build a life to find a solid man. You are not that. You as well can find the person for you.

Answer 7

Don't quit your Job !! It seems to me that your girl,doesn't TRUST YOU !! She wants Control over YOU don't be Foolish.Why risk a job you like ? I would not want to rely on someone,to take care of me ever !Tell your girl how much you like your job.If she truly cares for you,than she should respect your wishes. Good luck to you i hope things work out in a good way for you.

Answer 8

first ask your brother if whatever u would have a job at his place ,u must be secure if so then move in with her and be as lazy as u can be .but  ask your brother first about the job ,u can also look 4 a office job