Help my life is going CRAZYY. I need help. Bad.?

Question

Okay so i have been going through a lot the last couple of years of my life and well i just basically don't know what to do anymore. I'm never home parents in my town are starting to worry and 2 parents have said something about calling child services. at home things are weird dads always working i don't mind. my brother is always playing video games i barley ever see him. My mom isn't available, shes in prison. I've cut myself before. Almost became Anorexic. and still have thoughts about both, once i was standing on a high ledge and i thought about jumping off. Something is wrong with me but i cant possibly tell my dad. he wouldn't understand of know what to do. Please Help.

At school i am popular and my friends are pretty much the only people that are keeping me alive.

Answer 1

Try talking to your school counselor or calling the county mental health line.  Either one should be able to refer you to a mental health clinic that will charge on a sliding scale, and they will have people there that you can talk to about what's going on.

Depending on your age, you might need your father to okay it before they'll see you, however.  I'd suggest sitting down with your father (perhaps even with a teacher or the school counselor there) and letting him know that you're having some problems and would like to talk to someone about it.  

If you really don't feel comfortable doing this, then you might just have to do with talking to the school counselor.  He or she may be able to give you more options, too.

Answer 2

Yes I also think you should go see a school counseler. It is free and they can help you sort out your feelings and get you on the right track. When I was in high school, I was the exact same as you. i was practically anorexic because I did coke and other drugs, I had no relationship with my father, a verbally abusive realtionship with both my mother and step father and just and all around S****y life. I have scars on my arms from where i used to cut and I was also popular in high school. So i know exactly how you feel. What I did is i went and saw a doctor and got diagnosed with bipolar and schitzoeffective disorders. I got prescribed medication which has helped me significantly and one day i decided to just quit drugs cold turkey and get my high school diploma.

My advice is that you have to stop thinking about the negatives in your life and focus on the positives. I know it sounds easier said than done but it is possible. Take one problem at a time and focus on that and that alone. Once you have solved one problem, move onto the next. If you try to solve every problem all at once your going to go crazy, trust me I know. Don't let other people get to you either. Do what is best for YOU and never give up. I hope that helped. Good luck! =)

Answer 3

Have you ever thought about your purpose here on earth?  You are no mistake, and you need to find a way to fulfill your destiny.  Find a good church with people your age and let them become your "second" family.  I know it's not a popular thing to do to push religion on others, but religion is not really what I'm trying to recommend.  What you need is people around you that care about you and will take the time to give you good advice and offer you assistance when you need it.  Be strong and make good decisions for yourself.

Answer 4

Talk to your dad.   You may think he won't understand, but at least give him a chance.   He may be smarter than you think.   If the talk with your dad does not work out then talk to your school counselor.   Don't stop trying.   If you have to talk to one of your friends parents, then do it.    Your worth it, so don't stop trying to find the answers and the help that you need.    

Answer 5

I'm worried about you. Listen to me: you need to get help. Get it now. You are still young and have a long life to live, so don't throw it away. And I understand that it is going to be very hard, but you need to come clean with your dad. Tell him that you've brought harm to yourself in several ways and have even once considered suicide. But he is going to want to know why, so you need to be ready for your answer. If you can't tell him this is person, write a note and put it in an envelope. Because after you tell your dad, things will get easier. I know that it's hard to see now, but he cares about your very much. He's your dad, and he will forgive you. Lastly, (and I hate to push this on you), but I strongly recommend praying. Talk to God, tell Him your feelings. Tell Him everything. Please trust me when I say that He is going to help you. Good luck, and hang in there.

Answer 6

this is a question better left for a professional. this isnt appropriate for a yahoo site. ur not gonna get many serious answers anyway

Answer 7

when you dont like something CHANGE it. i think you should talk to a professional psychologist. ull get a better understanding of yourself. also, i think you should talk to you dad. u kno wat  can u IM  [e-mail]   id like to talk to you.  

Answer 8

wow im sry all i have to say is get a bible and pray to have god getcha through

Answer 9

Try to talk to someone about it maybe a teacher that you really trust or talk to your best friend you really need to see a psychologist so that they can give you medical help. Please don't sit there and do nothing seek help with the people that you trust the most.

Answer 10

i have never tried to kill myself however i was made fun of at school all the time. you are lucky you have friends at school, i was the exact opposite i pretended outside of school that everything was ok, but it wasn't even close. suicide is never the answer, if you can't talk to family try talking to a school counselor

Answer 11

lyf aint eazy 4 me either.....i used 2 cut..kinda still do nd i dnt really eat but not cuz i dnt wnt 2 juz cuz sumtimez i cnt but find family dat u truzt nd can tlk 2....ask ur dad if u culd stay wit dem...tell him u wanna be a doctor or sumthin nd u wanna go wit ur other family...idk mke a lie cry if u hav 2 juz dnt do nuttin 2 seriouz..atleast not 2 ur self...lolz..(kiddin) but keep ya head up nd do wat u think iz best....nd tlk 2 ur frendz dey will help u ALOT...ill pray 4 u...xoxoxo

Answer 12

go see your school councilor before you do something you regret.