Help! my mom hates me!!!?

Question

ok so im a 13 year old girl, and im brunette.ive always hated tha color of my hair so i asked my mom if i could go blonde. she said she would think about.i asked wat she thought tha next week and she said it would b ok. well that waz like 2 weeks ago.i hav a hair apointment 2marrow and i told her wat shade i wanted to go.i waz a simple blonde and all of a sudden she starts cussin me out saying im ungrateful and stuff. she said it would look S****y (no offense.i dont think so,)and i need 2 remember that im 13 and were not goin every 4 weeks to get my roots touched up. how do i convince her? plz help me!!!!

Answer 1

Approach her calmly...

try to negotiate something with her

Answer 2

Believe me NOONE wants to be a blond.....They have a tendencie too be dumb

Answer 3

HAHA!

Answer 4

well i think its weird she yes then changed her mind... but anyway you're too young i started dying my hair at that age and it's like once you start you cant stop, because you get huge ugly roots after awhile and only looks better when you dye it

don't do it, enjoy your healthy natural hair and when your a little bit older decide

Answer 5

brunnette isnt a bad color. i have red hair and wish it was brown. you should tell her your sorry and really want this.

Answer 6

Let her know that you are getting older and you need to learn to present yourself.

Answer 7

my mom does that....be really polite all day to her, and on the day of dying she will be in a better mood most likely

Answer 8

Moms have a rough try raising children and it's not PMS    PM-Sh........from being mad at a daughter who won't listen to her.  I know she loves you because dying hair can make your hair have problems later.

Answer 9

lol she doesnt hate you. it may seem like that since she did say yes and now shes going crazy on you, but she doesnt hate you. but she is right, once you dye your hair, you do have to get it touched up every so often. or else you do get ugly lookin roots. but if she wont let you get your whole head dyed, how about just some blonde highlights? once they grow out it wont look so bad as it would if you dyed all of your hair. you can still keep your brown hair but just add some spunk to it with the highlights. i love the look of brown hair with blonde highlights.

Answer 10

You're mom might have depression. :(

My mom did, but now she is on anti-depressants, and never gets mad like that anymore.

Watch her behavior for a while.

Answer 11

your mom does not hate you she loves you just as you are. the other girl is right once you start dying it you can not stop cause roots look ugly etc. if it is an issue of money maybe get a babysitting job and pay for it yourself  do not go from brunette to bleach blonde though. try a light brown or dark blonde first see if you really like it first. seriously though I agree enjoy your healthy hair before you start killing it with chemicals.  good luck