Help my moms an alcaholic !!!!?

Question

my mom gets extreamly drunk every single night no matter what... im so done idk what to do i cant live like this anymore i will end up killing myself and i need some advice and help please !!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

My father is an alcoholic, when i was 14 things were really bad he was involving me in his problems and being really abusive I phoned the social work department who moved me out and left me with my aunt for a while, it really helped ,maybe you should go stay with a family member for awhile to make them realise ur not just there to be someone to pick when their drunk:D

Answer 2

find an adult you trust.. an aunt, a friends mom, and get help and then she can get help. you shouldn't have to deal with it. have you told her how you feel about it when she's sober?  what does she say? def, get help from someone cause u shouldn't have to go thru that. My grandma was a drunk and put my mother (when she was young) in a lot of bad situations.

Answer 3

Alanon Alanon Alanon

It saved my life and many many more.  It is there just for people like you and me.  Please find it and go.  If you are a teen, try for Alateen, but there are more Alanon meetings, so don't miss out.

Your mom is ill.  Alanon or Alateen can help you deal with it.

Further, if you have a trusted other adult to turn to, please do.  Or a doctor, school counselor, or minister.  Many people can help you and her.  I am going to be praying for you and your mom -- praying that you go for some help and get some for her too.  If you can write back and let us know how you are doing, please do.

Answer 4

She needs to go to AA (Alcoholics Anonymous). You need to go to the support group for family of alcoholics. Perhaps an intervention would work for your mom--let the AA counselor decide that.

If you are in school, seek out help at the counseling office, they can direct you to programs. Also, let family members or close friends know what you are dealing with right now, they can be support.

Don't kill yourself, that won't solve the problem. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself, get the help you need, encourage your mom (when sober) to get help. If you don't have plans for your future yet (college, etc.) begin to make those plans and work for them.

Answer 5

PLEASE READ IT ALL

talk to someone,  tell them how you are feeling,  get your mom some help.

my mom was an alcoholic, she is now 12 years off the drink and ive talked to her about it so much, she says, she tried so many times to get off the drink but only fooled herself,  it wasn't until she realized everyone she was hurting and realized she was an alcoholic and decided that was it she was done for good that she found the courage to stay off the drink,  

your mom needs to find help to first realize that she drinks to much and then she should stop herself,  but you cant force her,  the best thing you could do is sort yourself out and find someone else to help her,  you cant do it yourself,  if you have any questions you can email me and ill get my mom to answer them,  

also,  

my mom always says,  " I'm still an alcoholic,  if i picked up a drink in the morning,  id be straight back to where i left off,  i haven't drank in 12 years ,  but that doesn't mean I'm cured,  that simply means ive managed to become a dry alcoholic,  but it will always be there"

it helps her to stay off knowing that,  she does it if not for herself,  for the sake of her kids

the email address i use all the time is [e-mail]

include the "www."

or

[e-mail]

i hope i helped.

even if my advice is useless,  im sorry,  but am here to talk if you need someone.

its sometimes better telling someone you dont know ,  because they cant judge you.

anyway. good luck. let me know how you get on.

xxxxxx

<3