Help needed with my bestfemale friend?

Question

I have started to like one of my best female friends and i have decided to tell her i like her when i think it is the rigth time. Her birthday is soon and i plan on giving this to her. http://www.ernestjones.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/5202981/

she is turing 21. If i give her this then i assume that she will realise that i like her. Now considering that she does not like me do u think sh will still accept the gift. We are very good friends at the end of the day!

Answer 1

No. don't do it.

You need to find out if she has the same feelings for you, otherwise you will spoil what's there already. She will withdraw if she feels like you are puting pressure on her.

You need to say things like [and sprinkle these, do not stack them up on her]

I really enjoy being with you.

I enjoy your company.

I like you, a lot.

I'm fond of you.

We seem to fit well together.

We make a good team, don't you think?

I think of you a lot.

After you say ONE of those things, you wait to see how she responds. If she ignores it or turns away, do not pursue it.

Keep in mind that she may have someone else that she is seeing, or waiting to see. It's a two-way street, and you cannot make her care for you.

Answer 2

the gift is not goin to make her automatically think u like her...dont assume u should jus tell her...

Answer 3

If you two are really tight, that might not let her know that you like her like that. She may take it as just really great friends.

That's a VERY pretty necklace btw. Fabulous choice!

Answer 4

yes, she will accept and have doubts about you whether you like her or not. I say that tell her.

Answer 5

The necklace itself is gorgeous. But honestly, giving her this gift probably won't make her think that you like her. She might just take it as a kind gesture from a friend. If you really want to go out with her in the near future the best you can do is express how you truly feel about her. Again, you won't know how she'll respond, but I think it would be a good idea to let her know your true feelings rather than bottling them up inside of you. Because you never know how she might feel, she just might like you too. :] Good luck!

Answer 6

1-Never assume, ESPECIALLY with what girls are thinking!

2-I think she'll accept the gift and be very appreciative whether she realizes that you like her in that way or not.

3-I'm just another bloke, so really, what would I know? I reckon the ladies can give you some gold on this one :-)

Answer 7

wow  pretty   if she doesn't want it, ome over, put it on my neck and I'll be your love slave for three months!!!

Answer 8

i don't know man, its a 50-50 shot. your assumption is right unless she lacks commen sense. anyway, try to test her without her knowing to see if she likes you. confessing is one thing but imagine what it would be like for her if she didn't like you like that and you bought this expensive necklace for her. wouldn't be function

Answer 9

Hi Praneet, fact of the matter is if you are looking for a relationship, trying to buy affection is not a good idea, and just because you buy her something, it does not mean that automatically she will date you.

Better being with someone who feels about you as you do her.

Mike t.

Answer 10

That is beautiful but you need to express your feelings in words as well. Best of Luck.

Answer 11

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Make sure you're not wasting money.

Answer 12

yes she most probably will.

but, as you give her the gift, tell her that if this don't end well, you still hope to be good friends with her.