Help on my relationship situation? Wont Commit but...?

Question

Well Long story short I have been talking to a guy for about six months now but he refuses to make the step to commit to me. We talk every night and see each other every week...when I bring it up he says that he already feels like i'm his girlfriend and that everyone already thinks I am so why should he have to ask me...I really like this guy but I am beginning to become frustrated with him for not making it official...are there any tips or advice anyone can give me on this? Thanx Loves:)

Answer 1

Does he get slightly jealous or irritated when other guys flirt with you? Maybe you could work around that and see what you can come up with.

Here's another thought, why is it that he has to make it legit? Why can't you pop the question? Ask him to be your boyfriend rather than him ask you to be his girlfriend.

Answer 2

idk guys act weird i know for a fact lol bcus i am a guy. just ask him

Answer 3

Sounds like you think the two of you should be married but he doesn't want to? (You don't specifically say marriage.)

If he doesn't want to, you can't make him. He's happy with the way things are.

You can either give it more time or walk away now. The downside to giving it more time is that it means you have to set a time limit, and you still don't have a guarantee that he'll be ready at that time. And you have to stick to what you say - if you say you'll leave in a year, you have to do it.

If you feel strongly that you want to be married, maybe you'll have to walk away from this relationship and keep looking.