Help please, i'm desperated.?

Question

i know this woman 6 years now, she has a little boy exactly 6 years old, i love him li if he where mine, and he loves me back. last week he asked me "can i call you dad". but the thing its that 3 months ago a guy move to live with her , and i have always have feelings for her stuped me i always put the friendship first. now the guy move to san louis missouri and i heard she may move too. my question is SHOULD I TELL HER HOW I FEEL BEFORE SHE MOVES AWAY? please help.

Answer 1

heck yea, do it as soon as you can before its too late!

Answer 2

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

GO FOR IT! the worse thing is her rejecting you and moving away. but the worst thing is her not knowing how u feel and moving and away!

if you love her and you love that little boy, go for it! at least u'll get some closure!

but getting involved with a single parent is not as simple. please thoroughly consider whether or not u're serious about her; do u see a future with her? can u provide and protect her and her child unconditionally?

coz if the relationship is not lasting, the psychological impact on the child could be way bigger than u had imagined. ask her if that new guy is committed or not either. bc she might be putting her child in some degree of trauma if that relationship doesn't work out.

Answer 4

yea tell her