Help please!!! Boyfriend!!!???

Question

I don't know what to do.

My boyfriend has been irritating me a LOT lately, (so many things it isn't worth going in to it)

But he never calls, texts, or even tries to contact me. He always waits until I do first, which is very annoying.

I haven't talked ot him since 2 days ago, and he just sent me an IM.

I don't really want to talk to him.

Should I tell him what my problem is?

The only thing, I've tried to talk to him about the problems in the past, and he didn't even care, and just tried to dismiss it.

Should I wait until he tries to contact me, or just tell him how I feel?

I'm 16 by the way.

Answer 1

Honestly hun just tell him how you you feel..cause you shouldn't feel like that..that's not a good boyfriend..something is prob.wrong with him.

Answer 2

Boys are never one for chatting.  But if he is irritating you, and doesn't care about the negative things in your life that is causing you distress, why are you even with him?

At 16 you should be out having fun while you still can.  Not being tied down to some boy who can't even communicate well with you and doesn't give a hoot about your problems.

I wouldn't be calling him - you are not going to call him just because he has asked you to - you are not a doormat.

Answer 3

Tell him how you feel.  He deserves to know the truth.  And you need to know why he is acting that way.  Maybe you should set up a date to talk about your problem with his behavior.

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel. And if he doesn't care, then find a guy that does.

Answer 5

I'm a guy, just turned 17 so I can relate..  And from personal experience, if something annoys me or my girlfriend we tell each other.  We see alot of each other which helps... but try talking to the guy... if he's really interested, then he'll go the extra mile and do something about it... otherwise tell him to go swivle and find someone who will give you the attention.

But I could be wrong... he could just be really shy, really likes you and doesn't know what to say... so try and put him into a comfort zone, talk to him about yours AND HIS issues.  Heck... I'm a h**l of a shy guy, recently got with a first real relationship and all I can say is, good communication and understanding will point you in the right direction as to where you stand with your boyfriend.

Make it clear that you want him to actually want to talk/start the conversation with you for a change.

Answer 6

tell him how you feel

Answer 7

tell him how u feel, and what u want him 2 do about it, and 4 him 2 b less annoying, and keep more contact with u!!!!!!!!!

****Good Luck****

Answer 8

I haven't been into the dating world to much, but honestly, do you want a guy who will check up on you every second? That would be very annoying...

It is probably awkward for him to listen to what happened to you, and he probably just doesn't want to talk about it. Guys are like that.

If he's irritating you, dump him, plain and simple. Don't drag out an unnessicary relationship.

Answer 9

Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't straighten up and start reciprocating the communication then get rid of him. Relationships involve both people making an effort... not just one

Answer 10

he is not worth it

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Answer 11

gurl tell him how u feel... if he cnt change sum of his ways Im sure u can do much better.. I kno u love him .. but ur young!! live life to the fullest..

Answer 12

tell him...

i cant guarantee u but he mite be cheating on u

well yesterday i was talking to a boy and he told me like everything they do and it sounds like hes cheating on u or he needs his space u shud talk to him