Help please ex boyfriend !!?

Question

right me and m boyfriend finshed about 2 weeks ago we sure eachother for the first day today at lunch we hang out together with are other mates me and and my ex we messin about but gettin like really close messin about nd when i was out i was saying ohh lost loads of weigh think my breast are getting smaller ( i trust him alot so i telll him stuff ), and he said today they havent and he said this to me on msn so why is he looking at my breast still when apprantly he doesnt fancy me but we were getting really close and tht and ahhhard to explain do you think he is seein what he has lost ? help please x you opions please dont be nasty..xx

Answer 1

Hi there!!  I am going through something very similar with my ex husband.  Although he will always love me and he still looks at me in "that romantic way"  he will never get back with me.  There is too much stuiff that happened.  Guys can kind of turn off a relationship and all the emotional stuff that goes along with it.  While women, we ask ourselves "what if things were different" and "will we ever go back".  Guys are a different species, no matter what we say.  

Our exes can still look at us and that is it.  They are just looking.  We read into things with our emotions too deeply.  

Or I may be wrong and he could still be hopelessly in love with you!!  :) It depends on why you broke up in the first place.  

Best of luck, honey!!

Answer 2

maybe :)

and you know what? im going through a similar thing like you.

my theory is..

things weren't working and he THOUGHT he was better off without you and he thought he could handle this

but clearly he can't

and it seems that he wants you back

he has realized that he DOES still want you

it is totally up to you what you decide to do

but that is what i reckon he is thinking

all the best and i hope u find out the best solution for yourself.xxxx

Answer 3

Yes.

Answer 4

totally ye, he cant not look at u ur Gorgas girl! ;)

Answer 5

well he might only be saying that to make you feel better and because you said it he wondered and had a look. he may be your ex but he is a boy and boys look :P but you never know if you still trust him and you dont think he would say that if he didnt fancy you then he might fancy you...