Help please: i really need advice with my gf?

Question

what are somethings to do and what are things i should avoid

she is my first girlfriend and i don't want to feel like an idiot by doing something stupid

Answer 1

just be chill about it show her your the man and don't crack under pressure.

Answer 2

awww well just be urself and dont be to needy goodluck thats supper cute

Answer 3

I think it's terrific that you are asking. That means you really care about her, and that'll work in your favor. Some advice in a nutshell: communication in a relationship is key. Talk with her. Give her little compliments now and again to let her know you appreciate her. (Don't overdo it. Just be sincere.) Be playful. Relax. Be respectful, considerate. Think about her feelings. Don't crowd her - insisting that you see her all the time. Watch her and feel her out to see what her rhythms are for getting together. Think of interesting things to do together, things you both enjoy. Keep it fun. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

be yourself! dont try too hard to impress her. ask her on a date to the movies or something. get to know her even more! and make her head over heels for you!

good luck =]

and thanks for answering mine

Answer 5

Show your true colors. By being who you are you are a lot more comfortable around her. Girls like funny guys. Don't use too much "boy humor" though. Like potty humor stuff. Although, personally, I think potty humor is the greatest thing in the world and there's nothing like a good p**p joke, but that's just me. =) Some girls are really turned off by it. If you've known her for years you should have no problem being yourself. Just because you're dating doesn't mean your are supposed to change into a completely different boyfriendy guy. Act like you always have around her. Just a little more hand holding and arm around her and stuff.

I really hope I helped and everything works out perfectly. Good luck!! =]

Answer 6

-Go at your own pace

-Don't rush into things

-Treat her with respect: open doors, pull her chair out for her, give her your jacket when she's cold, offer to help her, send her sweet little love notes, etc.

-DO NOT yell at her or ignore her

-Be honest

-Be faithful

-Be yourself

Good luck

Answer 7

Just be yourself around her, she should like you for who you are. And be nice, but not like crazy sappy, unless she likes that

Answer 8

Being in a relationship isn't hard.. Just think about how you want to be treated and you're probably close when it comes to her...

I'm sure you enjoy when someone is there for you and is supportive.. well a girl loves that kinda of thing.. Just be honest, respectful, call when you tell her you will, think of not only about yourself but of her too.. don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to do....

Put in the time to make a good friendship and relationship.. It will go well... Call her or text her once in a while, it'll make her happy.. i'm not saying to call or text 24/7 but if you haven't talked to her in about 4 to 6 days i'm sure it'll make her have mixed emotions... Get involve in her life... ask her how her day went and actully be interested in what she's saying......... If you get a miss call from her... give her a call back.. maybe she's just calling to see how to say went ... needs to talk.. or just wants to hear your voice....

good luck

Answer 9

I am in the same situation. Take it easy and find some thing in common which you probably already have, be it work or school or church. Taking it a step farther is the hardest part but it has to happen, go on a date. To make it a little easier make it a double with an experienced couple that you know. Keep the first one simple, go to a food place and order first then ask if she wants anything, it may sound cheesy but she will notice the gesture and be a little more in tune and comfortable with the date or outing.

My example is I met her at work (scout camp). On staff night (wednesdays are early off) I took her and another couple to the nearest (city) food place. I ordered than asked her so she ordered. We enjoyed the rest of the night.

The biggest thing is to remember you are amongst freinds, and if the people went willingly they are already impressed so you don't have to be amazing, but still on good behavior. I hope you have the best of luck and a good time.

Answer 10

Be yourself. If she liked you enough to up your relationship to the next level, there's obviously something about you she likes...

Answer 11

well you could take her to the movies and let her chose the movie you could also go to the mall and buy her something call her and tell her how much you like her we girls like that just be yourself i mean shes going out with you so she likes you and who you are