Help please is this normal behavior

Question

my friend is so wonderful and sweet and i love her so much. she was a good girl until her boyfriend screwed her over now she is hurt. She is sleeping with everyone. 2 or 3 guys in a night. Shes on a prowl. She smoked pot and she never did that and she is messing with 2 people at the same time. we got a hotel together and she had s*x with this guy and she didnt even know him then his friend an hour later.. lots of guys and is this normal? I am so concernd about her. she traveled all the way to ny and spent a grand just to have s*x with this guy she didnt even know. i told her to be careful.. i told her she should be makign these guys pay for her dinner and plane tickets. she said she is independent and she dosent need their money but i believe if you don't make a lot of money you should have them pitch in after all they are getting theirs. what do you think

Answer 1

I think she's really angry and needs professional help.  

Answer 2

I am wondering how old she is, if she is having a manic episode, or if she has been sexually abused.  Sexual promiscuity comes for different reasons so it is very hard to see why she is displaying this kind of erratic behavior.  The best you can do for her is to listen to her.  When she pauses in the conversation, ask her why she does what she is doing.  Ask her if she is interested in talking to a professional about the pain she is in.  No doubt that she is.  

Answer 3

of course its not normal behaviour, but it is understandable behaviour. she is obviously very hurt, upset and angry. it will take time for her to get over this, but you must encourage her to speak out about it. she needs to see a counsellor, as her behaviour is not normal, and she may end up in trouble, or hurting herself even more.

she is very upset, so just be nice to her, spend time with her and encourage her to talk to you and a counsellor.

well done for being concerned - make sure she gets all the help she needs!

good luck! hope she is ok.

Answer 4

sit her down and nicely and tactfully tell her that you think that she has gotten out of control. i would educate her in the risks of stds aids and cervical cancer, behavior when you are younger does effect you as an adult..and i would pray for her. do as much as you can with her,detour her from the risky behavior , have just girl time,