Help please may be tmi but please help!?

Question

ok so im 18,black and a virgin. && so i was watching s*x&& the city and it was the episode where looks at her v****a in the mirror && i thought maybe i should know what i look like down there and i did

and it turns out my inner labia is black/brownish but im light skinned

and i wanna know is that normal? will guys wanna have s*x with me if they saw it or should i be freaking out?should i be seeing a doctor.

Answer 1

i think its normal.  there ar e lots of different shades that can be down there.  i wouldnt worry;

Answer 2

yes - it's totally normal!  don't worry.

Answer 3

you are fine. The labia is different on every woman and being a black/brownish is perfectly normal. I am white and my labia is a darker color than my skin. I have been for gyno appointments plenty of times and everything is just fine down there.

Answer 4

i think that it is the same as having brown nipples. you shouldn't freak out about it.

Answer 5

By the age of 18 you should have already seen a doctor anyway for a regular gyn check-up.  You sound nornal.

nfd♥

Answer 6

yeah thats normal =)

Dont worry

Answer 7

This is totally normal. You should not be freaking out. If you are worried, rent some adult video's with black women and take a look. Believe me, they show them up close and personal. Don't look at just one because there are many variations. Get several with several different black female stars in them. You will figure out, you are just fine.

Answer 8

You are fine sweety don't worry! Also kudo's for still being a virgin in this day and time at 18 years old. I am very proud of you not many girls can do that.

Answer 9

OMG, you're fine. :) Don't freak out. You should have seen a gynecologist by your age though. You should make an appointment. You can go to a woman OB/GYN if you'd feel more comfortable. Good luck! :)

Answer 10

Nothing to worry about. This is quite normal, especially in mixed race women. Guys shouldn't be put off by this, if they are then they're probably not worth your time anyway.

Answer 11

Yes you are normal and no you don't need to see a doctor.  Most guys do not care.  Their 'parts' are often a darker color than their skin tone.

Answer 12

From what I have read and heard, that is completely normal, just as being dark as ever with a bright pink area.  

Answer 13

well i'm not a black woman but i am a nursing student and its perfectly normal for it to look like that. the pigment is just darker in that area. a white woman's is red/pinkish down there. its just the way it is. guys aren't gonna freak out, especially because normally they are just happy to be getting some....

you dont need to see a dr unless you're in pain or have noticed something like warts or swelling or things like that

Answer 14

that's completely normal, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. lots of girls' labias are a little darker than the rest of them, whether they are black, white, asian...you are perfectly normal.

Answer 15

Genitals tend to be darker than the rest of your skin because of the increased blood flow to those areas.  I wouldn't worry, and if any guy doesn't want to have s*x with you because of that, then he's a jerk.

Applause for being a virgin.  I'm also a virgin at 23, and I'm waiting for marriage.

Answer 16

Whether you like it or not any guy who really loves you wouldn't care how your v****a looks. If your not having sexual relations then that's the color of your v****a and it's very natural for it to be that color.