So I made the cliche girl mistake of lending a guy money who is a complete loser. Currently he is being an *** about repaying me, but is about to enter the PA ARD probation program thing for a criminal charge. Given that ARD is only granted to those with no criminal record (and he has one they have not found because it is in another state), could I report him to the DA and have his ARD revoked? I should also mention that he is still using drugs (timed around his weekly urine tests) and continuing with the illegal activity for which he was arrested. Yes, I know I was stupid to lend him money, but at this point, I just want him to be as screwed as I am. It may be petty, but it is the only option left to me. Ideally, I would love to get my money back, and have multiple emails from him acknowledging the loan, so if anyone knows how to go about that, it would be greatly appreciated as well.
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