I have been approached by one of my colleagues, who is a male and asked to go out with him. I am not interested in him and I have tried in all possible ways to show him that I am not interested for the last 2 months. Luckily we do not work in the same office, however, we work in the same department so I get to see him every day. When he asked me to meet him in a restaurant and I emailed back, explaining to him why I would not do it and gave him good reasons and also explained to him that he should find someone who likes him back, he reacted quite badly. I said that we can stay friends and colleagues but I am not looking for anything else. It's been actually really hard to deal with it as he is a collegue and I hate conflict at work place. Well, now he ignores me and doesn't talk to me and pretends he talks to everyone else. He also said that I completely misunderstood it and he was only looking for a friendship but would not talk to me. what should I do? I feel so bad about it. I was trying to be all careful and nice about it and now he makes it so hard for me to face my workplace? He is so arrogant it's amazing.
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